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male
age
36-40,
*lipperyphish
writes:I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I think that she may be cheating.The other day she was checking something on her e-mail while I was in the room and i noticed there were all these messages from some kind of online-dating thing. She didn't say anything but she was rushing past them while she looked for the e-mail she was looking for. I didn't say anything but later I logged onto her e-mail (I have her e-mail password) and investigated the e-mails. They were from facebook, so I logged onto her facebook (I know, I am ashamed to stoop so low) and discovered that she was signed up for two online-dating services through facebook. It didn't look like she had set up a profile or used the services in any way, but she still had to click into them and accept them for them to be a part of her facebook profile.Honestly, the original e-mails look like spam, it didn't look like she had used the dating services and I have not noticed any other signs of cheating. Regardless I am very concerned and l feel like I need to look into it more or ask her about the online-dating things on her facebook profile but I don't know what to do. What should I do?
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reader, slipperyphish +, writes (21 August 2009):
slipperyphish is verified as being by the original poster of the question@anonymous - yea that seems to be what it is. that's weird tho, I have facebook and I've never been automatically signed up for anything. doesn't seem to be out of the question tho.
@starfairy - lol I guess you're right. I guess i'm just being paranoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): I somehow have an onlice dating profile, ive never been on it or anything and apparently i automatically signed up for it when i signed up for facebook!
It sends me emails saying that people are interested in me, but when you click on them it says you have to sign up etc. Its basically spam as you said it looked like!
Theres nothing to worry about i would say, unless she's actually got an account with her picture and details, and is speaking to people on it. Otherwise its most proablly the same thing as i have!
Hope this helps put your mind at rest :)
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 To be honest, is she going to be cheating online when you have all her passwords?
She's probably just curious, 7 year itch and all that? Sometimes it's nice to have a bit of male attention...Sounds totally innocent to me though.
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