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writes:So I hooked up with a girl after a night out, she came back to my house, self explanatory what happened next, she took my number and she left the following morning.We had texted a little the next day and I think I made a big mistake by slipping 'so when am I seeing you again?' into one of my messages, as that's when the texting stopped.Do I let this one go? or give it a few days for things to stew and then start from scratch? I know it's not looking too promising.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 see patience is a virture.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe not, she has recently text back! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the responses guys, think I'll be leaving it then! haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): Well she took your number and initiated the texting....so maybe she just got lucky again the next night and the next and the next...who knows.
Just chalk it up to experience, she's probably just out for a good time at the moment and thats all, if she contacts you again well, its up to you but I wouldn't hold your breath
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2011): Ah the joys of the random one night stand. All you can do is wait. You asked a question it's up to her to answer but honestly it sounds like she's not going to bother.Just wait a week and if you get no reply delete her number and chalk this one down as a fun night and nothing more.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (28 December 2011):
Its a sort of unspoken rule that the guy waits around 2 days to contact the girl again. I don't know how this rule started or if I even agree with it, but that's kind of the way it is; its supposedly a good medium between seeming needy/desperate and blowing her off.
I'd say give it another day or so. If you still don't get a response, move on, since she's obviously not interested in something deeper.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (28 December 2011):
 WOW!!! Sounds to me like she reversed the field on you. It's supposed to be the GUY who gets the GIRL to put out... then never contacts her again.....
Cripes!! I'd be concerned (as you are) the same.... Looks like you've been used...
Good luck.... (and, next time, don't put out so readily!)
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (28 December 2011):
"Tell me more, are women true?" "Some love change, and so do you."From 'The Knight of the Burning Pestle' a play by by Beaumont and Fletcher, 1607.Nothing changes. She may get in touch, she may not. Some women hate one night stands, others actively seek them out. That she hasn't been in touch is nothing to do with your own horizontal performance either- I've had one nighters in which the woman's been incredibly responsive but didn't want to see me again, and others where I was absolutely awful that first night but she was happy to keep things going and we kept seeing one another. Go figure. Let it go, keep rolling the dice, and good luck to you.
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