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Alcoholic dad

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Question - (21 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2010)
A female Ireland age 26-29, *adaoin writes:

ok right, im 14 now when i was 2years old my mam walked out on me my dad and my older brother (who was 4 at the time) she left for another man,, my nanny and grandad rared me and my bro because dad was always working. in 2008 my nan died.. my dad went mad on drink and was sitting at a bar all day most days when he was off work..he never rang me asking where i was or what i was up to.. i got involed with the wrong crowd and started drinking and taking drugs got in serios bother with gaurds..2009 gaurds knew dad wasnt looking after me like a father should never food in the house,,eating off the town.. clothes bearly washed!!! it was hard i started minding myself at 11 after my nan died.. i grew up to fast..way to fast..gaurds took me in to care..was there for 2weeks and then moved to my naibours house for 3months..missed everyone wanted to be back home..my naibour kicked me out because my social worker kept sayin im going home such a date and then i wouldn't.. came back home and still the same not as bad but im doing everything myself!! im like a wife to my dad and a mother to my older bro!! its still hard but i manage..just want to ask is there ANYTHING at all i can do to help him?? im trying my best but getting it thrown back in my face! i know what your going to say is 'its there choice to stop' but is there anything at all i can do?? please help!

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (22 August 2010):

SirenaBlusera agony auntHi,

Here are some organizations where you live that might be able to help. Please contact them, they want to help you. So do I.

http://www.drugs.ie/

http://www.alcoholicsanonymous.ie/

My heart goes out to you!! Good luck!

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