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We agreed to split... but when he went out with someone else, I decided I want him back!

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Question - (7 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2005)
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Last December I felt really fed up in my marriage of 18 months and told my husband I wanted to call it a day.

At the time he told me that he understood, as it had been going downhill. At a xmas party, Ii pulled a bloke and was texting him for a while. My husband found out about this on xmas day and decided to tell me that he wasn't OK with the split.

I thought I had made my mind up, and have been rejecting him since. This weekend he went out with someone else, and it's killed me. I've suddenly realised how much I love him, and I can't stand the thought of losing him.

I've told him this but he says it's too late, he's moved on now. What do I do? I suffer from depression and this is making me suicidal.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (2 July 2005):

Dont forget you were the one who wanted to call it a day. You met someone else and it didnt work out, your husband met someone else and now youre jealous? It sounds to me like you have one rule for yourself and another for your husband. You have to tell him how you feel, if he feels the same, give your marriage another go. If he wants to move on with his life you have to make a clean break.

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