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writes: My partner and I were together for 12 years then we split up for two years, I asked him if we could get back together and after a long while he said yes. Now I find that he is on a porno site and sending messages to ladies. I feel very unhappy about this but I am not sure if I should .. I cannot tell him I know he is using this site because he would then know I have read his e-mails (which goes to show how insecure I am .. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006): I think he has got used to being on his own and probably finds it difficult to adjust to you being around. When he was on his own he's looked at these sites and made friends, whom he emails. You say that is was you who kept asking him to go back together and he evenually said yes, Well, i wouldn't of kept on asking him. If he didn't want to come back the first time that might of told me something. You can't really say that you have checked his emails, can you? But you need to confront this one or it will just eat away at you. It you do want a confrontation then you might have to say that you looked at them and what is his game? If he comes clean and the air is cleared then it has been for the best but if not then you might have to be prepared to split again. And stay away from each other.
Take care
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reader, tuttankamoonster +, writes (5 December 2006):
Yolanda I can say as a guy that when a man looks into porno sites thats a man thing but the messaging other ladies shows instability , I feel that you should be feeling out from within yourself , when meeting people , let your soul shine and your mate will see it and like a moth to a flame he will be drawn to you , so shine on girl the world needs some brightness , best wishes for your future make 2007 yours ok regards from across the pond
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