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writes: I'm 26 I have been in a relationship for the last 5 months with a guy of 27 who who I really like. We got together while he was still with his previous partner of 5 years but he decided to leave her so we could get together properly. He has told me that he loves me on a few occasions and I always thought we were happy together. We only see each other a couple fo times a week so are never in each others pockets and can get on with our own lives which works well for the both of us. He recently came to a family wedding with me and met my entire family. The day after the wedding he tells me that he is not ready for a relationship with anyone and that everything had just got tooo serious between us. I don't really understand as nothing has changed other than going to this wedding. He knows that I don't want to get married or anythign like that but it has left me very confused as to why he has had this change of heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): Hmm...well im not saying this is what happened in your case, but I was at a wedding recently, and as i sat watching the happy couple get married i starting thinking about my relationship and whether i thought my boyfriend was the one for me. We have only been seeing each other 3 months, so i know it is too early to know this, but i still thought about it and i think that the extra 'thing' to make it really work is missing. I came away from the wedding thinking i should split up with the guy because i dont think he is the one, but have let me more rational side win and have decided to give it a bit longer and see what happens.
I think whatever you have a right to ask for a proper explanation.
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (9 October 2006):
Yikes this is a difficult one! I know you say that you are not thinking of marriage or anything but it looks like your bf is thinking about his previous relationship of 5 years and he's probably thinking that he isnt ready for another serious relationship so soon after his previous one. The guy needs a bit of time alone to think about what he wants. The guy obviously likes you hes just confused and scared i think.
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