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After 8 years of just cleaning and never going out, I want out!

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Question - (26 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, *aulinefromfulham writes:

i have been living with my boyfreind for eight yrs now and i feel so unhappy we never go out together anywhere we dont do any thing together. i cook all his meals for him an clean up after him. i want him to leave but he just won't leave i have told him i dont want to be with him but he dose not leave i wanted to do it peacefully an not get the police invold. i also feel guilty because he has got nowhere else to go as he lost his place when he came to live with me eight years ago. I no his family very well an his parents dont want us to split up, wht am i going too do everyone will think i am wicked his parents an he will hate me but i am not happy in this relationship at all i men how can you be with someone eight years an you have only been to the pictures once to a resterant once all i do is cook an clean i dont have no life i never go out an i am 46 i should not be in this situation at my agebut i dont no what to do pls HELP

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2011):

You need to speak to a lawyer, because your boyfriend might have rights to your house if he has put any money into it. So my advice is for you to see a lawyer, ASAP, and to stop running around after him too.

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