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*ommyboy72211
writes:i cant help but be in love with my coach. i have been on a lot of other teams with a lot of other male coaches so its not like i have a thing for my coaches. but i am 18 years old and a senior in high school. my coach is always giving me signs that he has feelings for me but sometimes it is hard to tell. he is always casually going out of his way to touch me... like if he hands me something he will kind of hold my hand for a little bit, or if he needs to tell me something he will grab me by my arm or will tap me on the shoulder. he always goes out of his way to talk to me and then when he finally gets me to talk to him it will seam like he is trying to find something for us to talk about, like there was no reason for him to call me over. and if i ever walk through the gym with one of my guy friends he will just stare at me and either try to get me away from them or give me a look when they walk away. he has told me that he thinks i am pretty before and definitely treats me differently than the other girls on the team. there was also a time that him and i were the only two on the field before practice and were setting up the field, as he was helping me set something up his hand touched mine and lingered there for a really long time, then we made the longest strongest eye contact i have ever experienced, i swear to God something was going to happen, and we were about to kiss, but just then the assent coach walked over and then he left and said he had to do something in his office. anytime i am in a room with him our eyes meet and both of us keep looking back at each other. i don't know what to do, i really like him and have had these feelings for him for about three years now and will not be able to live with myself if i never try anything, but at the same time i do not want to try something if there is nothing there. please let me know if you think he also has feelings for me also, and if you have any other questions just let me know i'm happy to answer . Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 It does sound that there is something there between the both of you. I guess your only option is to try or else you will never know. Maybe invite him out for a drink or lunch or something and just see how you both get on. Am not sure if it would be a problem with the club if you where both to get involved with each other. This is something that you would need to discuss with him, because am not sure if this would effect his job. I guess it just depends on the club and what they find acceptable. I guess all you can do is talk to him and tell him how you feel and see how he feels.
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reader, moon river  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 okay, when you fancy/love someone it is natural for you to interpret everything they do as some kind of advance, especially at our age.
i'm sorry, as i have been in the same situation but it is unlikely that he will have any feelings for you and asking or making a move will result in extremely embarrassing and awkward lessons.
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