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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years, and we broke up about a month ago, and got back together after a couple of weeks of being apart (both of our choices). I was confused why he did it, but then I started to understand that he wasn't sure I was the one for him, he was confused and wondered if there is someone out there that is better. So he did it cause he was scared of the future. I can't give my whole heart to him cause I'm afraid he might break my heart again. What should I do?
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reader, matron +, writes (8 June 2006):
 Hi, take each day as it comes, he came back to you so he obviously missed you and the relationship. It is hard to feel relaxed in a relationship that you thought was going ok and found that that feeling was one sided, you will always feel tinges of doubt and need constant reassurance, well, for a while anyway. Just see how it goes, if this is what you want concentrate on the both of you, try to move on and enjoy being back with the man you love, if it doesn't work, and i hope it does, you will know that you tried your best and gave it your all. Good luck cherub x
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (8 June 2006):
 Take a break. Get away from the whole situation for awhile. Let him see where he wants to be and you go do some exploring of your own. I am in the exact situation, I mean almost exactly. I just gave her the space that she needs and just talk to her to see if she is okay and everything is going well for her. I love her dearly and we have 6-1/2 years but this is what she needs to be okay. I love her enough to let her go and do what she needs to do for her. If you love someone you have to want them to be happy even if its not with you. Good Luck.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (8 June 2006):
 dear reader. there's 2 ways of looking at this one way is to take it slow and see how it all plans out (hopefully the best) may-be he did find out your his true love but (not to put things in you head) how do you think it got to his disision. may-be he wanted to try someting (someone) new to find out of so he should have been honest with you as to why the break up but unlike most men at leats he did break up with you first so thumbs up there. on the other hand its a question i need to ask. how old was he when you got together? if he was young may-be he just needed some space to find himself ok a couple of weeks don't really do it but it would make sense if this was his reason. i don't know if i've helped in any way i was just giving my opinion really but i truely hope things work out well between you and don't fret about not being able to give your whole heart to him straight away this is normall and if its meant ot be it will come in time good luck and all the best xxx
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reader, sibaan +, writes (8 June 2006):
 maybe you guys should spend time apart. if you really love him then you should klet him go and if he comes back then its meant to be. really access your relationship and then follow your heart...
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