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Advice please on how to get this teacher out of my head!

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Question - (24 May 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *my2007x writes:

Hi, Okay well i left skl like 2 weeks ago and im in oncfe a week not to do my exams. Heres my problem tho, I am completely in love with my teacher :/ I actually sit up thinkin about him, his old daft jokes still make me laugh when i think about them and i jst feel so annoyed now when im wakin up at about 10 am on a skl day and not goin to skl, all i think about is what he is doin and if he is thinkin of me, fat chance i know im a student and hes a teacher! im not sayin he likes me, I would jst love advice on how to get this guy outta my heaad, ive had boyfriends whom i truely do like and and then its like i have forgotten about my teacher and life seems ohh so normal with no complications again, however, my feelings always do return and then i find myself with a boy tht i dont even like no more, then i have to dump them beacuse it aint fair then im left feelin liek this for an older man who cannot ever feel the same way i do?

I thought after i leave everythin would go bk to normal but it hasnt :s i mean on the last day my teacher was like guess wht?? and i was liek wht? and he said youve won the art prize! (hes a art teacher) and he said all the other art teachers voted for me, but he went round em all mentionin my name, as he said to me, so i cant stop thinkin about it in my head :S

also, i went in to see an art teacher to get my folio work and he said ohh i dnt know where mrs smith is ... but her husband will be in shortly, i can find out then if shell be comin bk in (her hubby is the teachnician) then i was like yeah kool then he said right i could text you and tell u whts ahpenin, i will go get my fone.. and i was like wtf? did i hear tht correctly?? i was gobsmacked and so happy so i gave him my number then he foned my fone so i could get his. bt i kept sayin is it ok is it ok?? then he was like im not gonna turn into a mad stalker kate, ill delte it once i text u.. bt then mrs smith walked in !!

so hes delted my number right? but i havent delted his, i cnt its precious? sad i know but i go to my fone book every night and look at it :S and then he said to me that he wants to take my class to lunch (its our last years, well some of ours) then i was like yeah kool and i was soooo happy about that too, so he wntd us all to go after the art exam, bt then it got cancelled as everyone bked out so he said well go when the exams are over... then my mate said but were not as skl anymore so?? then he said well we could arrange to all meet up sumwhere and jst go.

and in early june i have to except this art award now and im sure its him that gives it to me or it might be the lasty years winners, either way i will see him...

so even tho ive left, its as if i havent if u get me

advice please :(

x

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A female reader, s_princess Austria +, writes (25 May 2008):

shit situation.

:(

i feel ur pain

i guess he has a thing for you, so stay away from him.

he could hurt you more than you could think now...

if youstill knt forget him even by bein with other guys, then why not just hang out and find something worth doing?

like learning...:)

or drawing maybe?:)

sry, i know my answer is really worthless as i couldnt come up with any normal advice, but just wanted to support yah:)

my personal opinion is that you mustnt contact him. yep, it hurtz, i kno:(

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