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writes:My and my husband are having some really tough issues lately. We are in the process of moving him out of the house, and it is so hard to do. I keep wanting to go back and tell him just to stay here, but I really think him going right now it the best thing. But i keep telling myself that what he did wasn't so bad,or that I find myself just wanting to believe what he says, even though I know I can't believe him. He is a liar, and I isn't fair. I'm upset because it seems like he is excited to leave. I guess I would be too. All the problems are here. I wanted him to move out until we either started couseling, or at least were part way through it. He says he would do anything to keep the family together, but I've pretty much givin up on the marriage, but now that he is leaving, its really scary to try to think of my life with out him. We have been married for 5 years and have two children together. He has been in the military, and has been gone half our marriage, and when he is here he is always very distant. I know there must be some one who knows how I feel, any advice?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (23 April 2009):
 ok breath. this is hard. if you feel deep down this is good for you two, who knows maybe a few days away can help you two, then let him go, being in iraq( thats were im goibg to assume he was) is hard, especially when your whole life is put on hold. you have to also realize that. if your sad because he is going, you love him. i think maybe if you two have a seperarion trail, my husband and i have done that and sometimes it works. if you have question or need to talk feel free to message me. goodluck and keep your head up.
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