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Question - (27 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *attyxx writes:

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hey, i had been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. We broke up about 3 weeks ago because i met up with some guy, nothing happened, i just wanted a chat and me and my boyfriend had argued. About a year ago, me and my boyfriend had a break and i kissed somebody else, but i still loved my boyfriend, just needed to have a change (sounds horrible but we went through a rough patch) which doesnt excuse it at all. But now, i just want to be with him, want him back so much. It hurts and i love him. I just, i duno what to do. He says he doesnt want to be with me atm, but we had sex yesterday and he kisses me, but says he doesnt know what the future will be. Says he cant give me another chance.. I just need advice on what to do now. Do i move on, considering i lost my viginity to him and if he ever wanted me back i couldnt live with the fact that hes not my only and therefore change the whole relationship? or do i hang on, and the risk that nothing will happen again and hurt more? Please help me, im in a state. Thanks xx

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A female reader, Janice25 Aruba +, writes (28 July 2010):

Janice25 agony auntHi, u are so young.if he does not want u back.its not the end of the world.U move on and find someone else.u both seem confused-It is best that u both give each other some space to think about the situation, to understand ur real

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