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30-35,
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writes:whenever i think about sex (me having sex, others having sex, or watching porn), i get grossed out. i get aroused by like kissing and stuff but not sex, why is this? (im genderqueer, 16, and a virgin)
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (13 December 2010):
I don't think you're ready yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): I am a 17 year old guy in the exact same situation except the last part. The though of it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable inside. By the sounds of it, you are not ready yet. Don't worry about it. It takes time to grow into something beautiful. Once you have it, enjoy it.
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reader, SmilySmily  +, writes (12 December 2010):
Hey, it's totally normal i think. Well I am a woman but I wasn't actually sexually active up until my 20s and I loved my ex and everything we did was so cool apart from sex. I thought it was such an animal thing to do, thinking why can we have plantonic love and all.. lol but well the thing is, you will late come to a sense that it's not a gross thing but it is showing how much you love someone and expressin your feelings with your own body. which is beautiful!!! ;) you will be fine later on in your life. Think we all at somestage think that way....!! lol
Hope this helps! x
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reader, crzycatlady +, writes (12 December 2010):
 maybe you are just not ready yet. Sexual growth takes time. I didn't truly enjoy it until I was in my late twenties.
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