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writes:I am a student at united states. I am here from an Asian country. My boyfriend has been with me for three years. He hit me a year back, before I came to the US. I had broken up with him for three months at that time. But he came back and told me that we were meant to be together and that he will change for me. Hence we got back. After moving here with him, he's been emotionally abusing me and calls me ugly and fat. I have no self esteem. Off late he physically abuses me. I am being hit in such way that bruises all over my body. I get beaten worse than anyone can imagine. I am stuck with him here, I have no family or friends here. I really need help.
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reader, tux + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 Leave him ASAP. There are plenty of places out there in which you can get help and a place to stay. Contact the police and I'm sure they'd help you find a place to stay. Or you can find a women's shelter you can stay at. Just remember not to feel like you are stuck. You are worth more than what he is putting you through. You do not deserve this and take care of yourself.
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reader, damluvaam + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 You may feel stuck but you're NEVER, NEVER stuck. There are places, resources and people in your immediate area who can and WILL help you. In ALL my years on this planet I have never heard of ONE - not ONE - abusive man toward a woman changing!
You do WHATEVER you need to do to get away from this coward POS! Get really, really brave - angry, if you need that to propell you - and just make that change right now..
If I were there, I whoop his ass myself. Let's see how big he is with another man in his face. But since I'm not, do what you need - go anywhere for that courage, but get it.
Do it.
Denny
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reader, PeterPan + ♥, writes (15 March 2009):
 You are not stuck and you are not alone. I have no idea where you are in the States, but if you are near any relatively medium to large city, you can find woman's protective services and shelters to help you. Do not take any more of this guy's crap...
If you dial the operator or possibly go to any police station, they can help you escape this abuse and probably take you directly to one of the shelters I mentioned. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! There are people to help you!
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