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Abusive husband and started divorce proceedings, is he making me jealous on purpose?

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Question - (31 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

if you finally had enough of your abusive husband and started divorce proceedings to which he never answered back to the petition and then you saw him with another woman but still continued with the divorce and got your divorce and never had any further contact with him after that, would that of shown your ex that you wasnt at all bothered that he had gone and got someone else especailly if he had done that on purpose to try and make you jealous and stop the divorce?

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A female reader, Rae1031 United States +, writes (31 January 2009):

I am in an abusive relationship right now and I know exactly how hard it must have been for you to finally find that courage and strength to get out so congratulations to you. With that being said, why would you even care what his motives were? If you start to question things now you may just fall right back into his trap. Your divorce is through, you are free of the abuse. It is time to start working on you and your happiness and never look back. First and most importantly get some kind of counceling or support group, if you start to feel lonley you may start to question if you made the right decision - you did. Fill your time as much as possible so that you don't think about him - don't just keep your hands busy, keep your mind busy too. And when you are ready, start dating again. Good Luck.

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