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writes: I have recently started a new job and I have been getting on really well with one of my colleagues but I am not sure whether he is being friendly or he likes me. He was training me within my first few weeks. He kept making me laugh and was sort of playfully touching me as if we were a couple of kids carrying on with each other. Now that I am working on my own he sends me emails about work he asked me if I would be his "dinner buddy" via email but he hasn't actually asked me face to face. I replied back telling him to let me know when but he never replied. When I leave work and he is leaving the same time he will walk with me. He is very friendly with another girl in the office and has had dinner with her so I'm not sure whether he does like me but I know she is married. I am feeling very confused and I don't know what to do about this situation. I have tried to forget about him but every time I see him my feelings come back.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (23 August 2006):
 Hi Nicola,
I thinks he is naturally a friendly and playful person i have met many of the same type u have described. I cant confirm if he has a special interest for you you gave him the opportunity to go on a date with you and he is yet to respond to that which i agree with you isnt too encouraging on his part.Because of this i wouldnt encourage you to ask him ask just yet or express any feelings at least for now.Perhaps later on if u still feel the same way and if he has carried on with the date he asked for.
I think that you are handling everything very well so far, have good instincts and seem sensible so dont worry. Just trust your gut feeling.
Take care of yourself and goodluck.
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