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writes:last night i got very drunk and got fingered by one of my oldest closest boy mates. we nearly slept together but when my concience kicked in and told me not to. Im disgusted with myself even though i didnt sleep with him. I have no self respect and i feel awful =(he promised he wouldnt tell anyone bcoz im the only person he's been that close to since he split with his long term girlfriend and he doesnt want me to get slack for it. I love him to pieces, as a friend. How can I get around things being awkward between us when we go back to school? Any help will be appreciated - lots! xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2007): hi,dont ever put yourself down like that for doing something you was both involved in and enjoyed,but you had the good sense to stop what you thought was a bad move,did he say it was a bad thing what you did or did he just go with the flow,if what took place between you both was just because of alcohol then fair enough,but there must of been an element of sexual attraction for it to have happened,you need to talk honestly about what happened between you and sort it from there.
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reader, kirstylouise +, writes (12 April 2007):
Hay firstly don't feel awful or dirty for whats happened because as soon as you start feeling like that it will allow others to feel that way about you aswell - afterall your both mature adults (i hope) and you should be able to move on from this. if hes as close to you as you say he is i doubt very much that hes going to want to loose your friendship so just sit down and talk it out together! The chances are he's feeling just as awkward as you.
Friendships are important so hold onto it!
Hope this helps
xxx
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