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writes:here's the problem...me and my boyfriend have been sexually active for over a year and sex was always great...until he started having issues staying hard...i mean he satisfies me in other ways but i still want him to be sastisfied and feel like a man...but he also has Evan's Syndrome which is a very high risk blood disorder...so im starting to wonder if thats the problem behind his issue...i love him very much and sex has always been a part of our relationship but now i refrain from too much sexual contact because i dont want to make him feel like he's not gonna satisfy me...can someone please tell me what happened to us...we are young people and a 17 year old shouldnt have this problem...i just need a solution... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): nothing is wrong with him. He is worried of putting you on the family way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Blood flow plays a huge huge role in sex because its whats required to maintain and get an erection. Blood flow issues are more common in obese people because their bodies demand a lot from the heart to keep pumping blood cause the flow slows down. However, your BFs condition isnt relevant to that scenario, rather I think his issue doesnt lie with exercise but just hopefully a trip to his doctor asking how his disorder affects him and what ways or meds he could take to counter those affects. Hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): In addition to a physical disorder, he could be dealing with stress or anxiety and that is causing emotionally induced ED. It is less common with younger people, but it does happen. Stress is a total libido killer.
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reader, Dazed'n confused  +, writes (16 December 2010):
a 17 year old surely shouldn't have this problem, and putting ur own feelings asside, keep in mind that there might be something physically wrong with him. if u love him like u say,do ur best to have him get this checked out by a doctor. furthermore,the blood disease he has could be in direct relation to his erection problems as it's the blood flow that gives him his erection in the first place. before this gets any worse drag him to the doctor...good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 December 2010):
If he has a high risk blood disorder, then that might be part of the problem. To be honest, he probably needs to see a doctor about this. This could be stress because he's worried, or it could have something to do with his disorder. He should't really take a chance on this, and should see a doctor to get himself checked out.
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