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writes: me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months. we are not virgins but in our relationship we havent had sex yet. but we have done everthing inbetween. We both give each other oral sex, whilst i have fingered her and had sex with her boobs. a couple of weeks ago i suggested sex. she refused immediatly as if i had done something wrong. im becoming desperate for sex. does anyone know whats wrong with her, or me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help. we are fianlly going to have sex on our 1 year anniversiary, which is next month. we are going to a place in the countryside. cant wait, hopes it worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): Hi there, I have been dating this guy for over 8 months also, and we have yet to have a real kiss, let alone sex. I don't know what's going on but I'm thinking of leaving him because of this fact. I feel that none of my needs are being met, and that I'm wasting my time.
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reader, goodcharlotte4life  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 my boyfriend is the same way, we dated before and had alot of sex, then when we got back together he wouldnt have sex with me, its been 7 months for me, but its only because he has become a big christian and now wants to wait till marriage, we still do oral and stuff but we dont have sex anymore, it can be teasing and frusterating but i stay with him because i love him and i know waiting till marriage is now one of his biggest goals and i couldnt take that goal away from him because he is so determined. :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Ok there is nothing wrong with either of you at all. Lots of people wait for sex if they are in a relationship that they want to commit with and really care about the other person so dont panic that there is something wrong.
However you both do need to sit down and talk about this. It sounds to me like she is just not ready and this might be for many reasons. Are you really sure she is not a virgin? Many girls dont like admitting to this and therefore she may have pretended that she wasnt and now she is freaking out. Also she may have had a bad expereince in the past. Or even possible she is just waiting to make sure that you are really committed to her. But you do need to sit down and ask her this. Dont make her feel like she should have sex with you just ask her is she happy in the relationship and also ask her what her fears are of having sex with you. Tell her you wont rush her but you just want to know the reasons. Good Luck.
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