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writes:its a year and half now since my husband "changed".Something happened which made him withdraw and act hostile towards me. Not violent but his manner changed. He snaps at me where once he would be complacent. His cousin and family had been planning to do a trip which he kept secret from me. To cut a long story short when they were here he knew their plans but wouldn't tell me, only until I would ask him would he tell me and that too with disdain. when I did confront him him with they way he had been with me he said he didnt tell me because he knew I hated them. I have never said that! I know he loves Australia and has had a close relationship with this cousin and now basically i am fed up with his hangups.I have done so much, which at this point I dont really want to go into, but I am hating him. I hate when hes close to me. I dont feel the same as I did 22 years ago. For now I wish we would separate. should we?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): You need to speak with a therapist. Contempt is one of the big time relationship killers.
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