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writes:hi its me again im the 21 year old with a little girl who has just found out im pregnant and was not sure what to do keep it or get rid of it well i went for my scan yesterday and found out its twins im having so im not going to be a 21 year old with 2 kids im going to be a 21 years old with 3 kids i cant do this i dont want them but i cant get rid of them what do i do all im doing is crying all the time please some one help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Hi
I dont think you would have the heart to abort them so i suggest that you put them up for adoption. That would be your best option. Think about what is best for you.
Regards,mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): Is the father involved? And what does he say? I would give them up for adoption if you don't have a supportive family and partner. The kids would have a better life with a couple who would do anything to have them! Please don't "get rid" of them. They are babies..and if you do you'll feel awful for the rest of your life. Think about it, how selfless it would be to deliver twins then have them go to loving parents that have the resources to give them a wonderful life..or choice number 2, you have them killed..let your heart decide. Good luck & God Bless you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): most mothers feels like this. talk it thru with your partner and im sure u will do what is right for the both of you and your little girl. i wish you all the best hunny, love hannah xxxxx
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reader, CaliGurl  +, writes (10 January 2008):
Yes, I agree with the others, if you don't believe in abortion then don't do it. If you are absolutely positive that you cannot handle keeping the twins for whatever reasons, then perhaps speaking with an adoption agency would be a very good idea. Its completely up to you to decide and just remember that putting them up for adoption is OK. Whatever you decide after all of this, make sure you go on some form of birth control just to avoid putting yourself in this situation again.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 January 2008):
 If you are sure you don't want them then contact an adoption agency. They may able to help you out emotionally and financially. There are plenty of childless couples that would love to have a set of twins. Children deserve to be wanted. Once you have delivered them make sure your doctor gives you a prescription for birth control pills so this doesn't happen to you again.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Talk to your parents or the father of the twins. How many weeks is your twins? Don't do anything rash or stupid. Be calm .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): Hi hunny,
Oh bless you, it won't be easy but i'm sure you will manage it's a case of having too plus it's not everyday you concieve twins! (You're so lucky)
Obviuously the decision is completely up2 u whatever you decide to do, but before you make any life changing decisions have a real good think about it!
My sister is 21 and has 3 children her oldest been 4 and youngest 17wks, she has a hard time with them and it hasn't been easy for her but what mother doesn't have a hard time with kids?! She says she wouldn't change them for the world because they are her life and they are what get's her through the day!
I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do, i hope i helped abit. x
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