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For 2 months we've been trying sex in all sorts of postions, but I can't have an orgasm...

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Question - (1 April 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2005)
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now and I cannot seem to have an orgasm?! We've tried different positions but nothing seems to work? help

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A reader, Dotty +, writes (3 May 2005):

HMm..sometimes girls need to get to know their own bodies before they can expect men to figure them out. I could be wrong here but if you have never spent much time playing with yourself you may want to try it.

Also try not to work at it so hard. The worry alone will hurt your mind set and women need to be in a good mindset to relax and let things go. Try to fantasize about things that turn you on as simple as a sexy kiss you saw in a movie, anything to get your mind and body to meet. Try to just fool around with your partner, like wrestling, that tends to relax one's mind also..Good Luck

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2005):

Wendyg agony auntBetter still, Invest in a love egg, ride on top and place the vibrating love egg against your clitorous. This is sexy for him as he gets to see you playing with yourself whilst you have your legs drapped around him and a double wammy for you as you have control!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2005):

Lots of women will never orgasm through penetration (I think the figure is something like 60% who won't). Get him to pleaseasure you first with his fingers or mouth.

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