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He lied to me about messages on his phone from a woman he met, and I just keep obsessing...

Q.   Please help. I'm so upset I've actually been vomiting all day. Just found out my fiance met a woman on an airplane. I know this because I found a strange text message on his cell phone. He told me it was from a male friend. He's a bad liar. I...

A.   1 November 2005: Hey girl...You are so not obsessing with any of this. Jeepsers you have more than enough innyour face prrof that he has done something. Maybe he did and maybe he did not actually sleep with this women. Relationships start with conversation. He is ... (read in full...)

How can we communicate and learn to understand each other without arguing?

Q.   My bf and I are not communicating, we are arguing. I will try to say, how I feel, he becomes defensive and thinks I am blaming him for how I feel. He suggests something and all I hear is rejection. We both know men and women are different and ...

A.   30 October 2005: Hey girl, what you are dealing with is not so bad. It is simply a typical communication block as you have already identified with. So you have already won half the battle. Both of you sound like rational people. Have you ever tried to write notes to ... (read in full...)

Mom would freak out if she knew my online guy is 11 years older!

Q.   I met this guy online about 8 months ago, and we've dated over the internet and over phone conversations for about 6 months. We started out really slow and now I love him more than anyone I've ever dated. Well, I'm only 15 and he's 26 and we live in ...

A.   30 October 2005: Girl, You are in a fantasy world here and that is very normal for your age. This man that is trying to get your heart is totally breaking the law on many levels. Do you really believe this man is after anything nut a perversion of sorts. Sweetheart ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

Q.   hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

A.   12 May 2005: Hmm, well no, sorry but it really is a personel decision. Most girls are raised to think YUKKIE when it comes to swallowing. Be verrrry patient with her and subtly keep trying to get her to even try swallowing. Talking about it can be good to see ... (read in full...)

For 2 months we've been trying sex in all sorts of postions, but I can't have an orgasm...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now and I cannot seem to have an orgasm?! We've tried different positions but nothing seems to work? help...

A.   3 May 2005: HMm..sometimes girls need to get to know their own bodies before they can expect men to figure them out. I could be wrong here but if you have never spent much time playing with yourself you may want to try it. Also try not to work at it so hard.... (read in full...)

Need tips for new and exciting sex!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Me and my partner have been having sex for about 6 months now and it's no long exciting or fun...what could I do to make it more interesting and fun for him..? He likes freaky things, so what could I do that is freaky yet comfortabl...

A.   3 May 2005: HMM...I guess it depends how you describe freaky...being spontaneous is always good, guys like to be taken and raped when they least expect it...Try incorporating foods, yummy yummy..Stripping for him totally rocks or demand he strip for you. These ... (read in full...)

My favourite position is man-on-top, but it just doesn't get me off. What's wrong?

Q.   I love sex with my hubbie, but it is hard for me to cum when he is on top. Him on top is my favorite. Is there something wrong with me? I know there is nothing wrong with him. He is a big size. ...

A.   3 May 2005: Hey Girl ..Nope, nothing wrong with you at all. I know girls that can only orgasm through oral, so not to worry. What you need to do now is enjoy being on top, guys really like that position anyway so you are already one up on him. Just use him ... (read in full...)

I want to leave him breathless with my oral-sex skills...

Q.   How do you give an amazing blow job that will leave him breathless?...

A.   7 April 2005: Ha, just do it like you mean it, the hungrier the better, for him. Guys love to know you really want to drink them..cheers... (read in full...)

My affair doesn't bother me in the slightest... but why am I doing it?

Q.   I have a boyfriend of 3 years and a 1 yr old son. I met this man and we have been having an affair but I don't feel the slightest bit guilty. Does this mean that I don't love my partner any more or am I just bored?...

A.   7 April 2005: Well as you say, it is one or the other, and you just like to live on the edge. What if it was in reverse though? How would you feel about that? Careful with this one, girl, you may lose everything..good luck... (read in full...)

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