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1st time sex and bleeding?

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Question - (5 October 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ey(: writes:

is it normal for girls to bleed there first time havin sex? should i be worried if its ben happenin longer than an hour?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010):

Miss, Not to upset you, but like quite a few that have already spilled their opinions, this is not something you should do at your age, and this is one reason why. Your organs are not ready for this yet, and this could cause some serious damage to you.

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A female reader, lisasmurf82 United States +, writes (6 October 2010):

Yea it is normal but every woman is diffent some bleed the first time. It's called your cherry popped.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

thank u (: u guys made me feel better n not as worried (:

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A female reader, DenimandLace44 United States +, writes (5 October 2010):

DenimandLace44 agony auntYes it is normal to bleed for a few hours...sometimes a few days. (not heavy, just some light bleeding)

Sweetie you didnt ask for, nor do you want a lecture, I'm sure, but I cannot in good conscious answer your question without adding, you are so young. You have all of your adult life to be sexually active.

Please be safe, use protection. Remember no glove, no love. That means without a condom on, he cannot have sex with you. Also you should be using some form of birthcontrol too. And hopefully you are aware that the pullout method is not effective birthcontrol. And you can get pregnant without actual penetration.

Be careful honey, be safe. hugs hon.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (5 October 2010):

chigirl agony auntYes it is normal to bleed. For how long I don't know. If it doesn't stop you should see your doctor about it. Can you call your doctor and ask if it will be necessary to get an appointment?

If a girl has been raped, or been forced roughly, she may be damaged down there, and bleed a lot more. If you bleed a lot it can mean something has been teared, and it would be wise to see your doctor/gynecologist about it.

If someone forced themselves on you and you said no, but they didn't listen, then you should tell your parents.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntNo you should'nt be worrying this is normal for the first time and maybe the first few times, but you are very young to be having sex just remember to always always use condoms.

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A female reader, londonmiss United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2010):

londonmiss agony auntHey,

I didn't bleed when I lost my virginity, but it is perfectly normal! Wear a sanitary pad and you should stop bleeding by tomorrow :) xxx

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