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writes:I am turning 19 in 2 months and i have never been on a date , never beeen kissed , and that has brought down my self esteem... a lot. I dont get it i have an athletic body and sometimes have girls tell me im cute, but never hot :( lol. I just started freshmen year at a community college , and there is not too much girls there. I have some in my class but im am too afraid to introduce my self , since i might come on too strong... please i need some advide, esp from the ladies :)
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reader, LoveWiz +, writes (10 September 2011):
 End the convo before you ask her out. It shows her your willing to take it slow. If she asks you out, that's fine! and if she's shy, just talking will help her break out of her shell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSpontaneous huh?, i like it! Does that mean i dont have to work up my confidence to keep talking to her before we can go some where for lunch or some thing ? lol .Again really good advice but her emotions looks like shes shy when we make eye contact we both look away fast ,and this happens alot ;)oh and their not dating!
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reader, LoveWiz +, writes (3 September 2011):
I never really talked to him before. It was just a spontaneous conversation. I don't know if he was just easy to talk to, though. It doesn't matter if she doesn't sit by you, just watch her expressions. And who cares about this other guy? Just make sure their not dating! That can be a bit of a downer as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBoth good ways to get know somebody. But let me ask you this how long did you know/ talk to this guy before you asked if he wanted to study conjunnctions with you, because i really want to go on a study date with this pretty girl who is in my class.Theres just three problems one she doesnt sit by me and two i have never talked to her and three she sits by a good looking dude ,whom always talks too :(. P.s thanks for the advice
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reader, LoveWiz +, writes (31 August 2011):
Well, he was in my Latin class, so one day after class, I hung back and just said, "Hey, did you get today's lesson on conjunctions?", and he said no, so we set up a study date! My current BF, I asked for lessons on how to drive his stick shift car! It was a good chance to get to know him while spending quality alone time. And as to my, erm, issues, at least throughout my grade school days I got an A in P.E. for not doing anything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! that makes me feel better :) .Wow you had a pretty hard life, thats terrible. It shows you have alot of dertermination though. Well my other problem is if i think a girl is pretty and has a good personality i imeadiately want to go out with her with out even getting to know her ( im usually way more interested then she is:(, ) How did you get your first boyfriend Lovewiz?
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reader, LoveWiz +, writes (27 August 2011):
Hey, don't beat yourself up over this! I had never been kissed until I was 21! I don't quite have an athletic bod- everything goes to my tummy. I had surgery when I was 4, and while that surgery kept me alive, it lowered my metabolism. It doesn't help I have Tachycardia, so I can't participate in sports (Tachycardia comes from the Greek words tachys (rapid or accelerated) and kardia (of the heart). Tachycardia typically refers to a heart rate that exceeds the normal range for a resting heart rate (heart rate in an inactive or sleeping individual). It can be dangerous depending on the speed and type of rhythm. If I get too worked up, I get an attack, which makes it harder to breathe and continue my normal routine). Asking out my guy was the hardest thing I ever did. Just find something in common- cars, movies, sports, classes- I guarantee one will say yes.
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