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14, My boyfriend wants me to do things to him... I'm not sure how to!

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Question - (1 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 14 and i have a boyfriend and he wants me to toss him off and give him head, im ready 4 it, but im not sure what to do. pleaaaaasssee help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, Amy4you United Kingdom +, writes (8 November 2008):

Babe, dont listen to everyone else on here going "your too young". If you feel ready, then go for it. Ill help you with it ... Tossing off - start kissing him and get abit rougher, this could be sucking on his ear and kissing his neck etc. This will get him in the mood, then slowly pull your hand down his chest and start rubbing his cock on the outside of his trousers. He will probably end up taking his trousers of or undoing his belt etc. Then you simply slip inside and start rubbing his dick getting faster and faster. Giving him head - Start by doing the same kissing techniques. This time go to the inner of his penis where his balls are and lick going up to his forskin, then slowly put your mouth over it and start going in and out. If its your first time i wouldnt do deep throat just yet. Keep doing that then adventually he will cum. You can either swallow or spit. If he is preasuring you, dont do it just yet. But if you feel ready then go for it. Also if you dont like the sound of swallowing his cum or getting it in your mouth. Use a condom, flavoured is good. Strawberry is very nice ;).

Hope this helps sweetie :).

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008):

I agree you are way to young.. I am 17 and still not done anything like that.. If I was you I would tell him to take a running jump.. He is clearly pushing you into it..

Girls dont deserve that..

Good Luck

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

The quickest way to lose your boyfriend and his respect is to give into his demands, you will then see the rest of the boys lining up for your services...The cruel fact of life is that boys can act as if they care about you to get sex and or sexual acts from a girl, and then they quickly lose interest in her and respect....the sad truth is there is a double standard and always will be. Any girl who gives the precious gift of her body so easily to a boy does not value herself enough, and this is abundantly clear to the boys as well, you will be as good as last Sunday's news.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

I'm sure he does! He probably doesn't know what it means either, but in the meantime, tell him to take a long walk off a short pier, and once he's cooled off tell him to come and talk to you when he can show a little more respect for you.

Phil

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYour only 14 i think your way to young to even think about anything like this,not knowing what any of this is just proves your immaturity you just need to wait till your old enough.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'll leave it someone else to give sex tips to babies.

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A female reader, s from wales United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

s from wales agony aunttel him to get lost,your far to young for this sort of relationship and any way its against the law and if he is older than you he will be put on the sex offenders list, thats nice for you{not}, and not a very good start to any relationship, i,d be horrified if i found out my partner was on the sex offenders list, i,d be giving him a very wide berth, he,s got no standards or morals, your only 14, i have 2 daughters and i would have gone mental if i knew a boy had asked them to do such a thing at that age, its something personal between 2 consenting adults, which you are not, and shouldnt be taken lightly.

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