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writes:*OP's own title*ok, i am 13 years old and i recently hit puberty to the point where i can now ejaculate, its been about 1 and a half months and since the first time i did ejaculate, i have not been able to stop myself from masterbating on a daily basis.... this is embarressing, i feel dirty and ashamed, but i cannoot stop! today i decided to try not to and the feeling is eating away at me! i hugn out with friends, played call of duty, and went for a bike ride, and i still want to do this! Obviously, sex is out of the picture... and i doubt my father will give me 'the talk' and i have no where else to turn! if i asked my friends they'd laugh. please! all im asking is that i can find out if this is normal and if i can do this less...... i really dont wanna get addicted but i really dont believe i can down right quit... is anyone else having this problem? or am i an outcast?
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reader, kingriley36 +, writes (28 April 2010):
kingriley36 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys have definetly helped me! im trying to cut down but its really difficult, especially embarresing whe im in class talking to someone and i need to cover up.
once again, thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Like the others said, you're perfectly normal.
You're getting overwhelmed with hormones. It's common for boys your age to be thinking about sex pretty much all the time.
I remember it used to freak me out too. I recommend you to try to stop feeling guilty and ashamed about it though. It's common to feel guilty right after ejaculation, but you're not dirty. Your body wants to practice for sex, and knows how to get you to do it.
The urge will go down some with time.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Don't worry. You are a normal regular healthy 13 years old boy. It's all good- and no, you won't go blind :)
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (27 April 2010):
 OK, for starters, what you're feeling is perfectly normal and natural. You're being hit with a huge flood of hormones. The way to deal with it in a normal and healthy way is to masturbate.
This is a normal and natural thing. But it's also a private thing. Do it as much as you want, but keep it private. Do not leave any evidence behind. Do it in the shower and wash the evidence down the drain. Do it sitting on the toilet, into toilet paper, and flush the evidence. It's not that you're doing anything bad. It's that the fact of it creeps people out. As long as you do it discreetly, then two or three or more times a day is no problem. You're learning about your body, which is perfectly right and proper. Just be discreet, and enjoy!
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 its probably normal i wouldnt worry about just be sure to wash your hands. LOl @ outcast thats funny. but foreal its all good, and your allready addicted you cant help that but there's plenty of things you addicted to once you try it like food water air etc all necessary.
Any way its a muscle the more you use it the bigger and stronger it will be this way your first time with a woman you will send her to the moon.
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