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13 and so confused about my sexuality... is this normal?

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Question - (13 March 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2010)
A male Ireland age 26-29, *loverally writes:

I'm 13 and i think im turning gay! I get erections thinking about girls but I get excited when i see a boy and when i masturbate sometime i get aroused fast thinking about girls but sometimes i dont am i gay. Please help, am I gay???

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A male reader, fingers1993 United Kingdom +, writes (19 May 2010):

At your age, most people are confused, some people, gay OR straight, realise their sexuality at 8/9, I personally was 12, some people, as another writer said, are 30/40, if not older. But whatever you end up as, there are people to help you. I know that much of what I am saying is not as helpful as you may have hoped, but as a gay male, I would probably give biased advice, as would a straight or bisexual male, but whatever you become will be completely normal. I will leave you with this link that should help you more than I can.

http://www.supportline.org.uk/problems/sexuality.php

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010):

Hi.

You're a young boy at the moment, and your hormones are crazy. There's no point worrying and stressing yourself out as to whether you're gay or not. It's perfectly normal to be confused at your age...alot of the boys you know will be going thru the same thing. Relax, think clearly about this without putting pressure on yourself.

Good luck

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A female reader, src. United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2010):

src. agony auntIt is normal at your age to be confused about your sexuality, you are not the only one! If you are getting erections over a girl then i dont think you are gay. The excitement when you see another boy is probably your hormones because you are going through a stage of pubity at your age.

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A female reader, superwoman021 United Kingdom +, writes (13 March 2010):

Getting exectied doesnt mean your gay, and getting erections to girls is perfectly normall, if you are worried sit your self down and think about what you like, but from the sounds of it you are straight and are perfectly normal at your age, x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010):

firstly, your only 13 years old. theres no way to tell your sexuality yet. some people are 30/40 before they truly know.

its very normal to feel this way. your 13 so your probably going through puberty, where you feel all sorts of emotions and feelings. you experiment to find out what you are.

when your about 18, remember this and you'll probably know the answer by then (:

hope i helpeddd.

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