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What should I do? What is he trying to do?

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Question - (24 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ive been in a very bad situation n dont khow what to do... ...me and my bf were sitting and talking when he said "would you mind if i tell you somdthing?" and i was like, "say it" and then he told me he likes another beautiful girl and want to break up, i felt so angry and he tod me sorry. i replied that u cant just go around and mess with peoples heart. and that was that. after 3 days he came over and asked to join again. what should i do?what is he trying to do?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (24 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntYou should tell him to go and try to be with that girl. That you deserve to be someone's first choice, not their fall back. Since you weren't his first choice, you need to find someone who will fit that bill.

What's he trying to do? He's trying to smooth things over so you'll still want him. Don't fall for his game.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

i don't think you should get back with him. he dumped you because he wanted someone else. he has probably gone and asked her and she said no, so he has come crawling back to you.

have more respect for yourself. you will meet someone else who won't hurt you like that! he sounds like a pig

xx

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A female reader, Cielito United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2011):

Cielito agony auntwhat did he do in those three days? did he persue this other girl and it didn't work? or did he sleep with her and realise he wants you, thats after he slept with her. what will stop him doing it again if you simply accept him back. also he won't respect you. he needs to work to come back again, if at all.

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