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writes:shit... where do i start. well, long-time listener, first-time caller. had (and divulged) a long-time crush on 2 of my friends... didn't go so well. we didn't see each other for a few months after that, but kept the door open to remain friends. and by the time a year had passed, we were back to the old ways.fast forward a few months. these same friends ask if i want to move in with them. i, like a jackass, say yes, and that brings us to my question...should i be reading into this? i'm REALLY trying not to, especially given our history. but, i can't not want them, you know? and living with them is simultaneously the best thing that ever happened to me, and the worst decision i've ever made. so, should i pursue what is almost certainly the same dead end, or should i cut my losses and move on (and out)?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 I can understand why you moved in with them, I guess you knew deep down that it would be a bad idea to move in with them, yet you could not resist temptation either. I think you know that once bitten twice shy. Really is there much point in trying a second time to be knocked back by either of these friends. I think the best thing for you to do is to move on and yes move out so you do not end up making yourself miserable.
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reader, orangeswild123 +, writes (5 December 2012):
 That is a tough pickle you've got yourself in. lol I don't think its healthy for you, since like you said how can you not like them? You're putting yourself out there to get hurt.I know if it was me, I would have a hard time being around someone I like but can't have without it getting complicated. I think you should move out and move on. It seems like a tense situation that will be made worse by being exposed to it when you really don't have to. Yah know? :)
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