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writes:Hey guys! Is it weird for a guy not to be big on sex? My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and he doesnt seem to want to have sex that much, or barely ever. I know sex isnt a big part of a relationship, but it is nice to have once in awhile. We just recently talked about it and he said he wants to when the time is perfect, but doesnt he realize thats what I want to? He kept contradicting himself saying how he wants to more often, but not all the time, and only when the time is perfect, and other stuff that would lead me to think this way. Is he just trying to make excuses not to and does this mean that every other time wasnt right? Also, how do I know if he really wants to when he keeps giving me mixed signals. I dont want to have sex with him and realize hes just doing it because he thinks i want to, this whole situation makes me feel humiliated and embarrased. What do I do, How do I know?!Thanks (: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust giving an update on my situation! We have sex like over once a month..and yes we have had sex before, but I am his first time, but I have been with someone else before. Maybe he is nervous but we have before so I dont see why he puts it off now. Thanks for your advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): How often do you have sex a week?
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reader, N91  +, writes (22 June 2011):
 I'd say it's a little weird, considering most men would be happy to have sex every single day of their life if they could..
Have you had sex before? or will this be your first time? Also have you had sex before? or are you both virgins?
Because he may be a little nervous if this is going to be his first time and not want to mess up, maybe it's putting him off?
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