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I told my boyfriend I got the morning after pill but I didn't!

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Question - (13 May 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ilbabybitch06 writes:

dear cupid...................................

i think i mite b pregant coz 14nyts ago my boy friend and i whos 2 years older then had protected sex but half way through we both heard the comdom split. I told my boyfriend I got the morning after pill but I didn't coz i was 2 scared and ashamed 2 get it now my period is 5day late and i dont know what to do please help

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A female reader, fairydust United Kingdom +, writes (14 May 2007):

fairydust agony aunthi firstly you need to act responsibly. take a test if your pregnant you need to tell the truth to your boyfriend (he has a right to know). there is nothing to be ashamed about asking for the morning after pill it just acting resposible and you should of thought about what you both wanted at the time and gone and got it. if the test is positive you will need to go the docters and make an appiontment with the midwife. good luck x

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (14 May 2007):

stina agony auntLilbaby,

You need to take a pregnancy test. (And if you're not going to be responsible, you need to stop having sex, as well.) Don't panic - see what the test says before getting everyone all worried. If it's positive, you need to tell your parents and your boyfriend. Here is a website that will help with letting your folks knows what's going on:

http://www.momdadimpregnant.com/

And if the test turns out negative, learn from this experience. There's absolutely no reason that you could not get the morning after pill. That was a very selfish and irresponsible thing to do, and I'm sure you know that now. And isn't it worse to be pregnant at your age than to feel ashamed for a few hours?

Take care.

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A female reader, Broken14 Australia +, writes (14 May 2007):

although their is not an answer that will solve your problem you need to at least tell your b/f or some one you trust and can talk to about it. you cannot do this alone. this is a serious situation you are extremely young and some body who doesn't know you cannot help.i have been in this situation before and was terrified luckily my boyfriend was their for me 100% i hope yours will do the same if you choose to tell him.

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