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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi aunts and uncles.. I feel so low :( I am 32 and hate how things never work out for me. I am in hell in my job and I have been looking but nothing, I had interview, thought I had job as sounded like I did and then last minute they said they can not take me on, as now looking for more an established person for the role. The job I am currently in is hell, the MD is a bitch and as a result so many have left, in fact from a company of 35, we are now left with 8 in the 6 months since I joined, this is also when the MD took over her company (she owns it but had left it in others hand for 4 years) So job not great, and then there is the men... i have never had a serious boyf, yes I have been with some for a while as in a year it, but they have never done the meeting parents thing, more of a causal thing, although I always fall for them :( The one who I was close to and met family etc, I never really wanted him, he was lovely, but no spark. Recently I met a lovely man, 28, sweet, spark and lovely, met my friends, all loved him, but after the first few times we had sex he then said just wanted to be friends as we rushed into it, so I agreed, we stopped sleeping together and came friends, then reality hit, no guy however nice will stop like that, he actually does only want me as friend and upshot he never replied to my text and ignored my phone call and that was a month ago, so safe to say his gone.I really think there is something wrong with me.. all my friends have jobs they enjoy with careers and or loving partners. I never meet anyone (despite going out lots and having an active social life) I never get the boy, or the jobs I wantDo some people just go through life like this Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2012): Aw things will go your way some day, you have to keep believing in yourself. Be confident in yourself and do not worry about not having a man, you dont want to look like your 'needing a man' sure way to scare them away! and anyway.....you are wonderful without one :) Some day if you keep believing in yourself and it will happen xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2012): I have the same problem. You are not alone in that sense.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (15 August 2012):
 You are still fairly young to be worrying so much about that.
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