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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been engaged to my long term girlfriend for a few months now. Recently we discussed having a threesome with another girl. We both agreed to ask one of her long term friends (they have known each other since around the age of 3). We havn't had this threesome yet, but i'm finding that i have growing feelings for this girl. I love my fiancee with all of my heart, but i also spend alot of time thinking about her friend. Is this just because of the talk of a threesome?
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reader, rorowes  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 I know of a situation where a guy brought another woman into his relationship and his wife ended up sleeping withh the other woman after their mutual encounter. He beat up both women and later killed his wife in front of their son. Is it really worth the risk?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): You are asking for trouble. Threesomes are a trendy con which people try and find they have wrecked their relationships. Sure, try if you are young and single. If you are mature enough to be engaged you are mature enough to have gotten this stuff out of your system. 80% of relationships where the couples try this are split up within 18 months. Your risk, does it still seem so sexy? Where do you draw the line here. Would you like to have a threesome with another bloke and find he has a bigger willy than you? This stuff breeds relationship insecurity and I can't understand why nobody has the foresight to see it coming. Perhaps I am just an old fart but I think "yeugh". Plus, even if I was tempted to try it I don't think I would be able to look at the people the same way again. I most surely would not quite be able to equate the bloke with trustworthiness or fit him into the profile of father to my kids quite so much. Perhaps you should try this, perhaps you should not be engaged. The two don't seem to mix really. You are supposed to be starting towards a life of being faithful only unto her etc. Hhhmm?
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