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writes:Well, the problem is, I am still truly in love with my ex, but he feels nothing more for me, I think. We still remain quite close friends, but I can't help but still look at him in that way. He didn't treat me exactly great in the relationship, but I used to glimpse this special side of him, the true side of him, not the fake side that he used to hide behind, and I truly fell in love with him. He means everything to me, and i'd be devestated if anything happens to him. I still help and look after him even now, he has a lot of things going on, not least of which is his confusion with his sexuality (which I think may have killed our relationship). The thing is, he says he feels nothing left for me, but we always end up having sex if we're alone together. Is he using me? If so, how do I get over him? It's so difficult, as I said, i'm very much in love with him, and would do anything for him, yet get the distinct feeling he wouldn't do quite the same for me. I also have a current boyfriend who I've been with for 2 months now, but it just isn't the same. I HAVE to get over my ex, but I just don't know how. Please help?
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reader, bluntasaspoon +, writes (10 August 2008):
 well u have taken the first step by being with someone else,but please for your own health stop sleeping with them both, if your ex is not sure about his sexuality and is freely sleeping with u.... who else is he sleeping with? man or woman? i know its a harsh thing to say but u gotta think about these things. also if he is questioning his sexuality then he more than likly gay, and is using u to make sure that he is not straight. sorry to put it that way but thats how i see it. and i also asked my ex gay boyf who is now married and he said the same. so do some tests to make sure u aint caught ne thing and leave ur ex be for a while k
hopr this helps
bluntasaspoon x
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