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I have a crush on this guy but I'm fat! How can I gain more confidence about myself?

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Question - (1 April 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2012)
A female Mexico age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am an 18 y/o fat girl and i have a crush, he's really good to me...im really confident when I'm with guys...but they just see me as their friend...and I'm afraid he'd see me like that...i really want him to get more interested in me!...but not much as a friend..i want him to see me as a girl...friends also tell me that i anyone can love me if I'm confident...but even though they tell me all that stuff...im still fat...

what do you think i can do to gain confidence and knowing that he's actually into me...because being honest here...i don't think there are guys who likes fat girls these days :(

please help me...

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2012):

oldbag agony auntwhy are you fat is it genes or glands or over eating?

make the best of yourself thats all anyone can do work on things you CAN change clothes hair & exercise. add dimension to your character start an unusual hobby or challenge.if your happy how you look then wait till a guy comes along that does want to date you

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