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female
age
36-40,
*ukiya
writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for more than 6 months now. He used to call or text me at least once a week if we don't see each other or if I don't text him. Last month, the company he worked at closed down and he was jobless. He has gone for several interviews now and hasn't been called back yet so he went back to his hometown. I haven't seen him for almost a month. I text him sometimes to ask him how he's doing and tell him I miss him and all I get back is "fine" or "okay" and that's it. Now, even when I text him he doesn't reply me. When I call him, he doesn't pick up. Maybe he needs space or maybe I'm being paranoid that he's not interested anymore. I don't know what to do. I can't seem to get him to talk to me or tell me what's wrong. Please help.
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reader, Yukiya +, writes (28 September 2008):
Yukiya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for answering. We've talked but although he doesn't realise it but he's already giving away signs that he has someone else.
Again, thank you for reading.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): dont be passimistic,he lost his job.for a men being without job is something that makes their world upside down.it is not about you believe me even he says want to be friends,it is just he thinks he is not man enough now.but now if he has a job and still the same forget about it.if not be supportive and make him feel that he is still your man and give him some time.
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reader, Yukiya +, writes (27 September 2008):
Yukiya is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe wants to be just friends so I guess it's over. Thanks for reading anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): Let him go, its obvious and it's hurting you. These are not the signs of someone who cares or he might be down but if so he needs to tell you that and not lead you astray.
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