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writes: MY B/F AND I Got into an argument the other night. All day we did not talk. I call him after 11 or so...no answer at all..i called another time. No answer. I text in the morning b/c i figured he was up and at work asking if we are broken up or something. We finally get to talking and i said how come you didnt answer ur phone. He said he was sleeping and his phone was downstairs. But usually all the other times he wakes up and hears it or wakes up sometime during the night and calls me. He didn't do that this time. He was still in bed when we spoke. He said he JUST WOKE up. And then i said you are off, and he says yes. I said so you just woke up? He says yes so then i said i thought your phone was downstairs and he gets pissed when i said this and said JesUs ChriSt. I drop it at that point. Eventually he said he went downstairs to get his phone and called work.I am having trouble believing him..should i suspect he did something last night he shouldnt have???
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 It seems to me you think that every night or else you wouldn't have the need to call him every night so late. I would be exhausted if someone checked up on me that much, in fact, I wouldn't put up with it because it's insecure and controlling. Your behavior should give you a sign that either you are in a deceptive relationship or that your mistrust makes you obsessive and out of control. Either way, it's a problem. I can't imagine this makes you happy or feel good about yourself. You may never know exactly what he did that night and he may have not done anything- I don't think that will deter your obsessiveness knowing an answer because you will never know for sure unless you find it in you to trust. He may not be the right person to trust. Right now, regardless of what you decide to do, I would work on your behavior.
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (1 April 2008):
 I think that from what you have described that you really don't have much to draw a definite conclusion from here on whether or not he stepped out on you. I think that the fact that you are worried and suspicious and that you have a little warning sign going off in your head is probably a bigger sign that you aren't trusting him, possibly for a reason that you can't put into words right now. If I were you, I would trust your own good instincts and watch him closely, but that's just my opinion. Hope it helped.
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