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writes:I have been with my bf for almost 3 years now, we love each other I often talk about our future together. Over the last 2 months though he has been working more and then when he has free time it seems like he would prefer to spend it with mates or by himself. We used to spend sundays together because it was the only time we both had the full day to ourselves but now he asks to just stay at home by himself... I dont know whether I am reading too much into this and he is just tired etc or whether he is starting to feel like I'm too in his face or something? I'm confused and its upsetting me because I'm scared he is falling out of love? any opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2010):
Sometimes when young men get a little to close, they pull back a bit. It's natural. However, because men are also confusing, it could be that he's not as interested. At the moment, give him the space and just continue to talk to him so he knows you're there. Set a time limit, such as another few weeks, then ask him to meet again. If he doesn't, set another time limit (another few weeks), and ask him again. If he's still not interested, then leave him.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (2 April 2010):
 He could be just getting a little bit stifled by spending a lot of time with you, give him his space and see where it takes you in the future.
It may be nothing, he may just want space to think about your future together.
The easiest way to handle this is tell him you will give him space if thats what he wants but ask him how he feels about your relationship together. If he starts hesitating too much then he may have some issues.
Hope it works out for you.
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