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... Send *our big sis a private message | | | *our big sis's profile: I have always been drawn to help others out whether it's emotionally, physically, and financially. I had a great role model- my mother. She was dedicated to helping women and children suffering from domestic abuse and I can't remember how many people my mom helped- there were so many, but I do remember the faces of relief when help was offered. We had one vacant room in our house and it was always occupied by a family in need. And sometimes we'd have the living room as a camp refuge. Seeing what an impact one person can do by helping another in need is my drive.
I am the oldest of 5 children. My parents divorced when I was 6 years old and we lived with my mother growing up. I helped my mother raise my younger siblings and have experienced about every question, problem, disagreement four young people could muster up. And of course, my own life trials. I guess you could say that's where I get my need to help someone in need. I'm a wife and mother of two residing in Dallas, Texas. |
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If I tell my friend I love her, it might be a big shock, so should I tell all, or not?
Q. I'm deeply in love with one of my really good friends and I intend to tell her but I don't know if she'll be freaked out if I tell her I love her. So do you think I should tell her I love her or should I just tell her I feel really strongly?...
A. 5 June 2005: Depends...if she's in a relationship right now, do not tell her. If she's single, why not? Most women would prefer falling in love with a good friend than a stranger off the street. And be prepared if she rejects you, maybe she really finds you ... (read in full...)
My guy dumped me over a false rumour... How can I get him interested again?
Q. Dear Cupid, I was going out with this guy for about two weeks. It seems like such a short time, but I had soo many feelings for him. I was almost sure that we were in love. Neither of us were self conscious of what the other one thought or anyth...
A. 5 June 2005: Let him go. Stressing out about how he feels about what others have said to him true or not, is not worth it. Why you want a relationship with a guy who believes everyone else except you? Yes, missing him does hurt. But believe me, you will get ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about everything. Now we're split up...and I'm pregnant!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have no idea where to start. Well, I am an 18 year old deeply in need of advice. I got myself involved with this man for 6 1/2 months now, knowing he is bisexual. What I didn't know is that he has a problem... he is whore with men as m...
A. 5 June 2005: Oh dear...I wish you had asked questions earlier before you hopped in the sack with him. The age difference alone should have told you something. Dry those weepy eyes. He's not coming back. And WHY in the world would you want him back?? Hurt... (read in full...)
An old flame has contact me... but I'm married now!
Q. I have been married for 10 years and thought the relationship was pretty good. Suddenly a girl from 12 years in may past contacted me and I know she had tried a few times over the years. She truly was the love of my life but we parted due to ...
A. 5 June 2005: Be affected now that she's back?! Silly man, she has always been back. She's always been around...with other men. There's a name for this type of female - homewrecker. Any female willingly and knowingly contacting a married male has no honorable ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I think my truck-driving husband would prefer being on the road to being with me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. He is a truck driver and has always made accomodations to be home. He promised me that after we got married he wouldn't go back over the road, recently he has. I often tried talking to him about this ...
A. 5 June 2005: There are two things going on here: First, the obvious which you stated how you feel and second, his reason of keeping his job. Have you ever thought that maybe he loves his job? I know a couple of truck drivers who love their wives, but they ... (read in full...)
I'd like to get a job too, but would it kill off our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend is an otr truck driver. We have been talking about me getting a full time job. I have no problem with doing this, but it would mean never seeing each other when he is home. That would end up killing our relationship. What should I do? ...
A. 5 June 2005: The best thing to do is hold out for a job which does not require you to work on the weekends. That way, you satisfy your money needs and your relationship needs as well. Don't lose hope! There are plenty of jobs out there that do not require ... (read in full...)
Can I help my tomboy friend to look more like a girl?
Q. I have this friend named Shay. She's a tomboy but my boyfriend thinks she's gay and sometimes I do too. But I constantly beg her "can i give you a makeover, find you a dress or skirt and fix her your hair?" But when she does try to look like a g...
A. 5 June 2005: You say you're Shay's best friend, so BE a best friend. Stop bothering Shay about her looks. Who cares what other people think? I would say that you are being VERY shallow. You are Shay's best friend and it seems she needs you now more than ever ... (read in full...)
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