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writes: Dear Cupid,I have no idea where to start. Well, I am an 18 year old deeply in need of advice. I got myself involved with this man for 6 1/2 months now, knowing he is bisexual. What I didn't know is that he has a problem... he is whore with men as much as he is with women. He always lied to me, and unfortunately I believed him. Only to find out a week now that he is in fact a whore, has a family a couple miles away and that I am pregnant for him. We are separated now, and it hurts to know that I am left alone with this pregnancy. He is 29 years old and couldn't care less what happens to me!The shitty thing is, I miss him. What to do?
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reader, lucy +, writes (6 June 2005):
awww I am so sorry to hear that, It must've been so horrible. However, I think that you should really try your very best to get over him by totally blocking him out of your life altogether. He sounds like a horrible person and just let time help you to get over him. It may sound stupid but by listing all the things you hate about him and by going out and meeting new guys and having fun with your friends you will soon be forgetting about him and remember that every day which goes past is a day closer to being totaly over him. As for the baby, I think that all the baby needs is a loving mother and it doesn't need this man whore as a father, as he does not sound like an exact role model! Just do your best to make sure this baby grows up with your love and support, and I'm sure everything will turn out fine. good luck hun xxx
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (5 June 2005):
 Oh dear...I wish you had asked questions earlier before you hopped in the sack with him. The age difference alone should have told you something.Dry those weepy eyes. He's not coming back. And WHY in the world would you want him back?? Hurt takes time to heal. And you WILL get over him, don't worry about that. But I am particularly concerned about your unborn baby. Seek advice from a trusted older friend, perhaps someone from church or call one of those pregnancy helplines. They usually have lots of options for young mothers. And they can offer you counseling to help get over the pain of your situation. Please take care.
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