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Im Michelle, im 22years old, i am married with a 2year old son. i love the gothic/vampire look, my fav music is rock, metal, screamo, darkwave, dance and some r&b. I like to speak my mind which can get me in trouble sometimes but i say, well you asked, so ill speak my mind :-)

Taunts from people about my appearance are upsetting me!

Q.   Hi Aunts, this isn't really a relationship question as such but I was hoping that you could give me some advice about dealing with people who make nasty comments. I would have been described as a Tomboy when I was younger as I always played fo...

A.   23 January 2012: Hey, The thing you've got to ask yourself, are you happy being you? Do you prefer the way you dress? Do you like 'girly' clothes? If your happy being you why change because of some small minded immature bullies? I no how you feel because im n... (read in full...)

My girlfriend always had sex without a condom and it really bothers me

Q.   Hi folks, I have a kind of a weird problem: I've found the girl of my dream, we are together for 6 months, and I love her. I told myself I'll make sex without a condom only with my wife. The problem is that she's never used a condom before, the othe...

A.   11 January 2012: I know the feeling! my husband never used condoms before he met me and to be honest he never got checked for sti's either! and guess what? he gave me 3 sti's!  i couldnt believe how discusted i felt, i never felt so dirty and upset in my life. So... (read in full...)

There's no spark, I don't think there ever was. Do I tell my b/f?

Q.   I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for two years and I moved 200 miles away from home to his flat with him (and his mum) 6 months ago becaus of problems at home. We spend every minute of every day together and I can't ...

A.   6 December 2011: hey, i was kind of in your position. I met a guy from a internet friend. He lived 80+ miles from me. i was going through a hard time at home and decided to move in with him (we had an online r/ship for around 4/5months. I fell out with my family b... (read in full...)

He was texting with his ex and now I don't know what to think!

Q.   So i went out with my boyfriend to his works party they were throwing and i noticed that he was texting the whole time. Then on the way home (i drove cuz he was pretty drunk) i was able to see that he was texting this girl. After we were done ...

A.   11 October 2011: yeah are you going to believe that? All the warning signs are there, texting all the time, late night phone calls and lying to you until you told him what you saw. if there was nothing to hide why didnt he answer the phone in front of you? if it was ... (read in full...)

Did he give me HIV? How do I stop worryng about this?

Q.   Hi I know I have been incredibley stupid and I'm the first to admit that. About a year ago,I got a little involved with a married man (horrible I know) anyway we met up three times, on the last ocassion he didn't use a condom and he ejaculated ...

A.   14 September 2011: hello, to be honest you should get checked for all known sti's. The most common ones are chlamydia and gonorrhea but you need a complete check up for all. chlamydia causes infertility and even cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) which can be f... (read in full...)

Friend keeps flirting with my man right in front of me. What can I do about this?

Q.   My best friend knows I like this boy, who she's friends with. They've been friends for about nine months. Whenever I'm with the two of them, she makes a point of touching him as much as possible, and while she does it, she looks at me. She always r...

A.   6 June 2011: hey, i wouldnt trust a girl anywhere near my man after my experiences. Yes she is flirting with him and to be honest i think shes doing it to wind you up? girls are b*tches like that. By the sounds of it, your not going out with this guy? how come... (read in full...)

My receptionist gf adds guests on her personal facebook account! Am I right to be angry??

Q.   My girlfriend work as a receptionist in a hotel and she really loves her job. i work in the same place as a security guard (that's were we met) we trust and love each other and she shows me everyday and i really love her and trust her too.. we've ...

A.   21 May 2011: hey, i see where your coming from, if a partner was doing that to me, i wouldnt be happy. was she doing this before you two were dating? if so it might just be a thing she does. There are two issues here, the facebook thing and the smiling. In... (read in full...)

How close can a guy be with a female friend, when in a committed relationship with another girl?

Q.   How close can a guy be to him female friends when in a committed relationship with a girl? What are the things that a boyfriend can and cannot do with female friends when he is committed to someone?...

A.   22 April 2011: hey, what the others say is true. There is a thin line between friendship and a relationship. you wouldnt do the things you do with your partner with your friend. you wouldnt kiss, have sexual contact or sexual intercourse with your friend, but al... (read in full...)

I know now that childcare is not what I want to do. Need help with career choice.

Q.   Hey, a quick question, how do you know what you want to do in life if you have no ambitions and no idea on a career path? I had to quit college because i became pregnant, yes it was planned but it happened sooner then planned. The college cou...

A.   11 April 2011: hey k_c100, the only thing i really liked doing in school was science, from a early age i loved weather, space and astronomy, when connexions came round asking what we liked, they said id never get into Cosmology or astronomy because im too "stupid" ... (read in full...)

How do I ask my boyfriend if we can have a threesome with his friend?

Q.   i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx...

A.   28 February 2011: hiya is this a serious or casual bf. I dont know how anyone can have a 3sum in a relationship, its cheating, whether hes there or not. end of. having a 3sum opens a whole can of worms, id advice you not to do it. by having a 3sum it will bring a ... (read in full...)

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

Q.   hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...

A.   19 February 2011: hey, has anyone ever thought this guy is scared? if he is a player then, hes probably in a state of shock, he wanted sex, not a relationship never mind a child. i say contact him again. even if he deleted his number, you still have texts on your ph... (read in full...)

Trapped with over-protective parents

Q.   Ok so long story short i come from a muslim family and my parents are way too overprotective, im 20 years old and im not allowed to go out with my friends or anything, everyday i go to college and then come straight back home.I love my parents and ...

A.   3 February 2011: ok like the other poster said you are 20yrs old so your an adult, your parents cant keep you prisoner. Is there any way you can go to your local housing office and ask their advice? lunch breaks at college? Start looking for a job, even a part ... (read in full...)

Is there any truth in his words and actions?

Q.   Ughh, lets just start.... from my last few questions posted i have asked for some advice to what i should do about the guy i like. Just a recap, he has been my best best best friend for a few years now, we hang out, we talk alot (just like norma...

A.   14 January 2011: sounds like this guy is a typical male. reading your question this is what i thought "this guy is taking this p*ss out of you, thats what guys in general do, its a male thing, they are always so much more immature then the girls of your age, males ... (read in full...)

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

Q.   Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as ...

A.   12 January 2011: dont change your self for anyone. ask your self this, do you want to become a christian personally or are you doing it for him? if its for him then it'll end in tears, youll rebel. Can you really see yourself giving up your friends, social life, ... (read in full...)

After I get off birth control, how long does it take to get pregnant?

Q.   ive been off the pill for around 2-3 month, i was just wondering how long it takes for an average 18-19 year old to get pregnant ? what are your experiences how long did it take you after the pill...

A.   11 January 2011: hey, i came off the pill at 19, i had been on it since i was 14/15years old. it took me n my husband 5months to get pregnant, im now 21 with a nearly 1year old. The family planning clinic said it would take 6months for the pill to get out of your ... (read in full...)

I can't sleep at night, now he wants to end things!

Q.   Me and my bf r living together for 3 monthes.i've some problems with my sleeping.My sleep doesn't come at night.i usually get awakend for the whole night and do complete my studies and during day i go to sleep.my bf is saying that i'm disrupting his ...

A.   27 December 2010: hey 2bh i dnt think your sleeping is the problem here! Yes it is a problem but i think he's using this as an excuse to end things!! there are plenty of ways of sorting out sleep problems, here are a few - stay awake for 24 hours so all through t... (read in full...)

Because of his parents, I am always on the outside looking in

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. Its not been an easy relationship, his Mum can't stand me and as a result I've been banned from entering their family home for some time. There is no reason for her hate, she's just a possessive ...

A.   11 December 2010: omg why are you putting up with this?! have it out with both your boyfriend and his mum. why is she so hating of you? surely its got to be more then just a possessive parent? if it isnt then she needs help! he's a man now not her little boy, she ... (read in full...)

I want this to be our flat not his childrens

Q.   my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to ...

A.   25 November 2010: hi there im taking a different view point on this here. do you mean you dont want a picture of his children in the flat or just in that room? thats the question. if its just in that room maybe just have a word with him to put it in another room or ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my b/f want to say "I love you" anymore?

Q.   I love my bf 2 death i love him more than i ever loved anyone else in my whole entire life and i truly think he may b the "one" 4 me and he says he feels the same way about me..But last nite he said something that makes me doub his love 4 me.. We we ...

A.   13 May 2009: hey there, i think you need to take a step back and look at it from a distance. how long have you two been together? my bf says he loves me at the end of every text and lots when he is with me, its nice to hear it. i couldnt be happy if he didnt te... (read in full...)

Are orgasms really like many describe or is it exaggeration?

Q.   My question is about female orgasms. :p I've been masturbating since I was about 16, and it's always felt really good. But most women seen to describe it differently (on the net, in books/writing).. I simply don't feel the same way. They describ...

A.   17 April 2009: hey there everyone has different orgasms, nobody is the same, some people are really sensitive, others arent. some people orgasms are explosive and others only feel slight pleasure for me, i have to hold my breath and grip something to take the pl... (read in full...)

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