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Do you think guys can grow on you or that if there's no instant attraction there never will be????

Q.   I've been on a few dates with a guy. He seems sweet but I've not felt any real attraction. He's quite good looking and ticks a lot of the boxes - he's intelligent, got a good job, sporty etc but for some reason I've not felt a real spark. He's ...

A.   3 October 2008: well, you can't choose who you have a connection with, he may be the perfect guy but if your not into him then he's not your guy, and you will find the one you are supposed to be with. I wouldn't try for very much longer concidering you might be... (read in full...)

My ex best friend just so happens to be my boyfriend's best friend.

Q.   so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 mths now. His best friend just so happens to be the girl i grew up with, an used to be best friends with. we are no longer friends because she slept with alot of my boyfriends in the past an have ...

A.   3 October 2008: I think that when you are in a relationship with someone, you should be putting them first. But they should be reciprocating that as well. Have you told him why you aren't friends with that girl anymore? If you have and he is still deciding to be ... (read in full...)

Is it ok to try new things without discussing it or am I right to be upset?

Q.   I am sexually active with my bf of 9 months. Last night we had sex and he pulled out and jizzed all over me. He's never done that before. We use birth control and he didn't need to do that. I got mad because he didn't ask first. He says he shouldn't ...

A.   3 October 2008: Honestly. I use birth control too, but everytime me and my boyfriend have sex he pulls out, yes its messy but you get used to it. But sometimes it's really hot to be spontaneous, I love if my boyfriend just does something new. But if that made you... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex.

Q.   My boyfriend hurt his back muscle slightly 2 months ago and ever since then he has not been able to orgasm during sex. I am very confused by this because usually his back only starts to hurt after more than 20 minutes of sex but there have been ...

A.   3 October 2008: I just started going through this with my boyfriend. He just hurt his back muscle less then a month ago. and for the past couple weeks we noticed that it was taking a lot longer then usual for him to come. As he heals though it's becoming easier f... (read in full...)

I don't enjoy sex with my BF

Q.   I`m 24 yrs old and my boyfriend is 26 yrs we`ve been seeing each other for 8 years now,but my problem is I dont enjoy having sex with him,the thing is everytime when he enters me I dont feel anything i dont reach an orgasm or penetrates but when I`m ...

A.   3 October 2008: I think that you should maybe try a some more positions that make penetrating deeper? Have you gone on top when your actually having sex? Thats when you can control it so you have more of a chance of getting an orgasm.... (read in full...)

I met a guy off the net. It got a bit complicated and now he's not talking to me. I don't want to lose him as a friend.

Q.   hey im gonna try and keep this as short as possible i met a guy off the net that night i lost my virginity to him we carried on talking via texts and msn and he always said we would meet again after 3 months of him promising to meet up aga...

A.   14 August 2008: I completely agree with the answer above He is not worth your time, you deffinately should move on and leave that in the past, guys like him will always be this way, and you deserve someone better then him, even if you guys started dating each... (read in full...)

What are your thoughts on why teenagers want to have sex before 18 years of age?

Q.   Okay okay, I've been reading a lot of the questions lately and i keep wondering why teengers under the age of 18 want to have sex soo badly? Hey im 13 has a 14yo bf that wants to have sex he understands the wait.....but still, WHY HAVE SEX BEFORE 18 ...

A.   14 August 2008: I had sex at an early age, and I don't regret it, but at the same time, I don't think it's for everyone, and I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting, it is better to wait until you are completely sure you want to, but I don't think there ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of two years had a bad attitude, and though I moved with him to Boston, I could no longer take the way he behaved, we broke up, now he and I talk on the phone, and he appears to want to continue this odd relationship, should I participa

Q.   Thank you for reading this. I was in a relationship for 2 years that just ended almost 2 weeks ago. When moved to boston (2 hrs away) his stress lvl was high and bickered with me about everything. Visiting him with his bad attitude made me feel lik...

A.   14 August 2008: You should deffinately talk to him about where this relationship is going, it's to hard to just let it be in limbo and not really know exactly what is going on. It will just hurt more later on if you keep it going on like this and ending it late... (read in full...)

We are both 16, and all we want to do is cuddle in my bed, my parents absolutely won't allow it, how do I get them to understand that we are not going to have sex, we only want to hold each other?

Q.   im 16 and my gf is the same we want to cuddle in my bed but my parents wont even let her set foot in my room do u have any advice on how i can convince them dat we will jus be cudlin and not goin to have sex...

A.   14 August 2008: Hmm, I know when I was that young, my mom wouldn't let me do that either, but what is wrong with cuddling on the couch if thats all you are going to do. Your 16, and thats not that young to start being sexually active, so I know if my kid want... (read in full...)

I am trying to find out if this guy only wants sex, and that's it, how do I determine this?

Q.   This bloke at work arranged to go chum me to a night out, however he blew me out at the last minute with no explination, we didn't speak for a few months, he sent me a text saying we wanted different things and recently he has started to show an ...

A.   14 August 2008: It sounds like he just wants a one night thing. If your into it and know thats all it's going to be go for it! If he wanted anything else, he would be courting you, like asking you out on dates.... (read in full...)

I had an affair with my boss, his wife found out, we still see each other, but no sex, what is it that he wants?

Q.   After his wife found out about our affair, we still keep seeing each other, but no sex at all, his wife checks on him all the time and restrict him doing OT hrs (he is the boss), it's really hard for us to meet. What does he want from me? Why go ...

A.   14 August 2008: He could just want the emotional aspect of it. He could be getting something from you that he hasn't gotten from his wife in a while, this is more damaging to his marriage then a physical affair is. He goes through the trouble since he is feel... (read in full...)

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