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... Send *hiteshadow a private message | | | *hiteshadow's profile:I am from UK and I am 21 years old. I am not a teacher/doctor or qualified to help and give advice to people however I love life and my family and have been through different things. Im very laid back and relaxed. On the outside i am a very out going, honest and average girl. On the inside somewhere is a very deep kid. I love writing about my feelings through poetry although i havn't for a while. |
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I like this girl a lot and don't know what to do for the best.
Q. I'm confused and don't know what to do? The story is like this, I have a job, and on this job I'm teaching people how to learn and play a sport I'm like a coach. So I play with important people. This past weeks, one of the clients brought ...
A. 10 November 2007: good luck by the way x... (read in full...)
I like this girl a lot and don't know what to do for the best.
Q. I'm confused and don't know what to do? The story is like this, I have a job, and on this job I'm teaching people how to learn and play a sport I'm like a coach. So I play with important people. This past weeks, one of the clients brought ...
A. 10 November 2007: We all have to take a risk if we truely want something. You have to think hard about which you would rather gain.. relationship or your career. Theres no way you can have both inless you carry on dating her secretly but be open and honest and tell ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help as I don't think I want to be with my partner anymore.
Q. Hi - Can anyone help as I don't think I want to be with my partner anymore. My partner and I had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split up in February. Things really hadn't been right since about September last year. We didn't ...
A. 10 November 2007: After the spark is gone, unforntly it doesnt re-light that easy. If you want to stay with the guy and try relight a spark then i suggest trying different things together from anything to going out somewhere you both have never been or doing ... (read in full...)
I recently had a miscarriage and now I'm having discharges in between my periods, what can it be?
Q. I had a miscarriage 3 months ago, and haven't been taking my pill since. It was an early miscarriage - 6 weeks. We haven't been using contraception - Yes stupid of us, but I've been trying to get my head round that I was actually pregnant. But...
A. 10 November 2007: I think thats normal but i cant be sure. I have had it (never been pregnant tho) so im not much help but does sound normal to me good luck... (read in full...)
Ex dilemma
Q. My ex boyfriend has been calling and texting me for a while now. We broken up last January because he had a child with his girlfriend before we were together I was completely unaware about their child until after 2 months the baby was born. The ...
A. 10 November 2007: Im sorry to put it bluntly but it sounds like hes lieing. You can still be a part of a babys life if your a dad and not have to commit to the mother. My dad and mum and loads of other people i know.. they didnt stay together even when they or me was ... (read in full...)
I have been in love with her for 3 years now but never spoken to her, how do I tell her how I feel?
Q. i'm 19 yrs old and quite unexpectedly i fell in love with a girl in our school.Only i didn't tell her.And continued like this for almost 3 yrs.But,lately i understand that she may be,may be in love with me too!the real problem is that,how can i ...
A. 10 November 2007: wow after 3 years, Thats crazy. Be forward and honest. Get her alone and ask her to what shes doing later on. I she rejects you then you may realise she might not be as interested as you think but if she doesnt then go out with her, hav fun and be ... (read in full...)
Some tips/advice on how to get to know him better and see him out of work? You think he may like me?
Q. Theres this really good looking friendly guy who comes into my work a bit. He works in the same shopping centre as me. He has came into my work for the last 4 weekends in a row, and he always comes to me so I can serve him. Today he came into my ...
A. 10 November 2007: im stuck in the same kinda situation at work lol Just be nice and sound inetrested i guess :) hehe n if your not shy enough then be realy forward good luck!... (read in full...)
Is my marriage over?
Q. I'm 52, only been married for 5 years. First time for me, but my husband had been married before. His first wife developed a very serious illness soon after they married, and was an invalid for practically all of their marriage, and in the end she ...
A. 9 November 2007: I really wont be much help as i have no exp when it comes to marriages and long term relationships. But keep your head up and if you want to be stubborn, you be stubborn! altho It sounds like your husband is mentally exhausted and past a stage where ... (read in full...)
I need YOUR help...
Q. I need YOUR help... I'm female and in my early 20's. I am completly in love with another woman approximately 10 years older than me (please don't question it - I never knew love until I met her). I've never felt this way before about anyone - m...
A. 9 November 2007: im bisexual and telling another girl you like them is nto the easiest situation but you really have too.Maybe have a drink in the hosue together and tell her you need to speak about something. tell her you would never want to risk losing a ... (read in full...)
He is addicted to his computer... HELP
Q. Well, I have another problem with my boyfriend. Ever since I have known him he has been into computer games big time. He doesnt work right now so lately (the past for months) all he does from the minute he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep, is ...
A. 9 November 2007: I played online games for 3 years everyday.sleep eat play...was really sad. I never had a job or nothing. I eventually got bored though. i Can honestly say there is no way someone couldve helped me get off it. But i now got a job and i decided to do ... (read in full...)
I didn't go see him to teach him a lesson.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and I travel very often to see him. But, this month our schedule were very difficult and he only has one day off. Nevertheless, I was able to arrange my schedule to be with him that one day; ...
A. 9 November 2007: Long distance relationships are so tough. I know you dont want to hear it. But i have had a few and not one of them worked :( I feel realy bad for you. You sound like you have a heart of gold and well your boyfriend to be very honest sounds bo... (read in full...)
I'm scare it will hurt more.
Q. i'm in a relationship with the man of my dreams and he really wants to have "hit it from the back" i'm afraid it'll hurt but i want to give him what he wants. is there anything i could do so it wont hurt or hurt less ...
A. 9 November 2007: i suggest you try it yourself first then if that hurts imagine 4 times bigger however if you think it is ok go for it. If it was me i would'nt do it. It is meant to pleasure you both.not just one person and to me it hurts! :( good luck ... (read in full...)
He refuses to tell people about us.
Q. I'm sleeping with a guy from college who i meet though mates, but he refuses to tell people about us. He took my virginty and he always treat me right, he just won't tell people about us. But the wierd thing is when we get on the bus to go home, he ...
A. 9 November 2007: sounds like he is an older guy maybe? if he is then maybe he just doesnt feel ready to tell the world yet. But he can still have feelings for you.
Or.. if he is age 20- maybe he has a girlfriend. You said you was sleeping together which makes it... (read in full...)
My husband cheated, now this girl wont leave us alone? Why?
Q. My husband cheated on me. The thing is that the girl keeps bugging him and saying she wont leave him alone because he has hurt her so much. What does she means with that? I read this on a letter she wrote to him. Why is she so insistent?...
A. 8 November 2007: step aside a second that your husband has cheated on you and you must feel very bad in millions of ways but, if you look at it from her point of view.she obviously must of liked him alot.I think she might of expected your husband to leave you to be ... (read in full...)
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