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Well hiya! My name is Alison. I'm 13. The reason I came to this site is because I originally type in on Google, "Will our relationship be weird since we just kissed for the first time", and this site came. So I figured I help people and give advice since I've been told I do that well. Accept for the aggressive part, (we'll leave it at that). Just my number 1 tip for everyone that visits this page: Don't give yourself away for his/her love. It ain't worth. Trust in me.

I live in the woods in PA. (yes. I'm civilized.) Ignore them rumors you hear about us country people. We've got friends. It ain't just us.

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How do I keep him wrapped around mu finger?

Q.   Dear Aunt/Uncle Agonies, Okay, so I was in love with this one guy, but I've pretty much given up. :( I think I like someone new....but am too shy to do anything. How do I get his attention and keep him wrapped around my finger? ...

A.   22 April 2011: Cupidus, How the heck is that supposed to help me!? Did you not read the question? Gee thanks, TrustInYou... (read in full...)

He used to be so great, now he's verbally abusive

Q.   I have been with my husband for 7 yrs, married 1. He use to b so caring and loving and generous. Now he is verbally abusive and use to hit me but that stopped. We never have fun or talk or even laugh anymore unless its at each other:( he won't ...

A.   19 April 2011: Dear Lilmama10, Does it hurt to much to say goodbye? If so, couples counseling is always a good idea. I'm trying my best here! (Sorry, I'm 13 so i can't probably can't help out that much!) I really hope you can get his ass to counseling. My ... (read in full...)

In love with my best friend who is probably getting married to the wrong girl..

Q.   Hi, I am in love with my best friend whom I have know for like over 4 years. We were attracted to each other 4 yrs ago but nothing ever happened. Then we started seeing other people. I broke up with my guy a year ago and he has been having issu...

A.   6 March 2011: Dear Supercnfsd, I've given a lot of thought to your story. I'd have to say that if I were in your position, I would let them get married. He may like you, but he wants to marry that other girl. Please, just don't interfere with their relation... (read in full...)

My husband's gambling is out of control. How can I deal with this?

Q.   Well where do i start? Ive only been married for 8 months, you'd think it would be bliss still.... far from it. Everything has been fine, with ups and downs that have been delt with but now its just seems like its all falling down around me. ...

A.   4 March 2011: Dear BrokenEBZ, The easiest thing to do is call 1-800-GAMBLER. The people there should be able to help with his gambling problem. But have you tried talking to him? If not, I suggest you do that first. ~Hope I Helped, TrustInYou... (read in full...)

How can I break free? I know I will not get stronger unless he is not in my life.

Q.   I've let my relationship consume me. I let him abuse me for two years now, and now that I've distanced myself from, he's decided to start changing. I know he can't change over night, and I'm starting to get back to my old self. I broke up with him...

A.   4 March 2011: Dear Anonymous, When you say that he abused you, do you mean physical? If so, I understand why you kind of want to let him go. The question is, do you still love him enough to hold on and see the new guy he is trying to become? It seems like he i... (read in full...)

How can I overcome my fear of sexual-intimacy?

Q.   I am seventeen and have been in a relationship for 4 months or so, and it's getting to that point where we need to move on to the sexual side of the relationship... I've had previous relationships, but they haven't worked out because I just wasn't p...

A.   3 March 2011:  Hey Anonymous, Well, I've had my experiences and let me tell you, don't be scared. I'm not telling you to have sex with this guy, but at least give him something. There is nothing frighten about intimacy. Try something new. ~Love, ... (read in full...)

My small boobs are killing my relationships!

Q.   Okay I have really big problems with my relationships.. I have very small boobs between size AA and A (not very sure). When I meet a guys who I like, Im scared to let them get close to me. Often guys asking me out and saying that im nice person.....

A.   24 February 2011:  Dear Older me, Stop stressing. If any guy doesn't want you because of your chest, then he wasn't worth it. The reason I called you "Older me" is because I am suffer the same issues. Now, guess what? I ignored the fact that my best friend was a 36... (read in full...)

Husband agreed to counseling until I made the appointment. Then he backed out...help!

Q.   I found out that my husband has been on sex webcams and been getting erotic massages and spent over $200 in 8 days. I confronted him and to my supprise he did not deny it or blame me and agreed to go to counseling. Well I made the appointment and ...

A.   22 February 2011: Dear Mistreated by the Mr, Stay calm. Now, it seems that he doesn't want to work things out. How long have you been married? Did you notice anything strange during those first years/months? If he doesn't show up, that give you guidance on what you ... (read in full...)

He knows I like him yet he ignores me! And it lowers my self confidence...help!

Q.   So its been 3 months im crushing on this guy whos driving me nuts. It started off in december 2010 as i started seeing me constantly at uni, i couldnt take my eyes off him! I try to grab his attention, talk to him on facebook and try to catch him up ...

A.   22 February 2011: Dear Ignored, Please don't be offended by the name. Okay, now you may have told him and made it clear that you like him, but what you did wrong is tell him that you think he's sexy. That kind of thing makes a guy run. Try sitting with him at lunc... (read in full...)

Religous boy crush

Q.   Okay im having boy issues. Im thirteen years old and the boy im in love with is 16. Last summer i told him that i had a crush on him and it turned out he had a crush on me too. He told me that he liked me coz her had a dream about me n him getting ...

A.   21 February 2011: Dear you, Hey! What do you know! I'm 13 and have had a crush on my brother's friend for years. If I've learned anything from your story and my experience, it's that he likes you, but he feels about the age. Try bringing it up wit him. But be swee... (read in full...)

The way she treated me while working out her issues has really taken a toll on the relationship

Q.   Alright, so yeah I'm 15, if you're not going to take this seriously because of my age I'd suggest you just flat out don't read this. So I've been dating my girlfriend for coming up on 15 months now, awesome, but not really. I met the girl and we ...

A.   21 February 2011: Dear...you, Tell her what you wrote, about the whole "I'm sick of talking about it". Tell her you love her for who she is now. That was then and this is now. Tell her to forget the bad days. For God's sake, it's a new year. Time for change. Time... (read in full...)

I lie to my friends about girlfriends. I've never even had my first kiss!

Q.   Hi er I'm 14 years old and living in Portsmouth ATM I have never had my first kiss and I lie about it to mates to not be embarrassed. How can I change this and build my confidence? I need ideas on who in general and how should I tell them? Thanks ...

A.   21 February 2011: Hiya, You may not be thrilled to hear this, but I'm 13 and just had my first kiss. So, I do know how you feel. Okay, the first thing you need to do is stop lying. I'm saying to tell your friend that you lied to them, but just don't bring it up. ... (read in full...)

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