how can I tell if a guy is interested?
Q. how can I tell if a guy is interested?...
A. 29 November 2006: woah. baby girl sure knows boys..
well yea. usually we do most of that. however, most of the time the average boy does this to flirt. they love the feeling of getting girl's attention you know?
so you can be mixed up between flirting with and real... (read in full...)
We spent hours together laughing and kissing - now he hardly talks to me and flirts with other girls!
Q. okay well.. theres this boy i'v known him for three years now and we have been really good friends and av always had a thing for him and he says to me all the time that he's had a thing for me too.. recently i told hom i liked him again anf we met ...
A. 29 November 2006: what i suggest is that you totally abandon him.
he's being really rude and its just not right to flirt with other girls. me, as a guy, i wouldnt do that..not unless i really want the girl who likes e.g. me to go away.
well, he sure is showing ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my coworker my feelings for him before I start my new job?
Q. My feelings for a work colleague have developed over the last year and i have been in a dilemma for a while as to what to do. I have now just found out that I will be starting a new job by the New Year. Should I tell him how I feel or should it just ...
A. 29 November 2006: well,if you keep waiting for him that time might never come.. i'd say you ask him out.. see how he is. if all turns out alright, you got yourself some love :)... (read in full...)
He visited me after I exposed everything about him to his new gf - they're still together! I'm so upset.
Q. well here i am back again to let you know what happend after i expsoed my husband to his new girlfriend .he was here with me yesterday talking to me about his new house and telling me he was moveing into it maybe today and telling what she was ...
A. 29 November 2006: totally agree with shandy... (read in full...)
Can I pop a pill to make my breasts bigger?
Q. I have small breasts, like just a handful, and my guy wanted to tit F*** me and I felt bad because I have nothing there. What can I do to make them look bigger in bed or is there a pill that will enlarge them? I dont want surgery. That is a NO NO NO ...
A. 29 November 2006: Hello,
i dont think there are any pills fir enlargement.. well none that i know of.
first of all, think this through.. you dont need big breasts to please your boyfriend. what really counts is you, and it wont matter to your boyfriend be... (read in full...)
I think we like each other... but I want some tips to find out for sure!
Q. What are the subtle signs a guy likes you? Also I think this guy likes me and I like him, but I'm unsure of how to go about it. Any tips? thanks ...
A. 21 November 2006: er.. im a male.. normally if a guy likes a girl..
well he would keep trying to eye you whereever you are.
some guys though, they tend to avoid you although they like you so as to make you think they do... well. these guys are usually shy.. so... (read in full...)
I'm fourteen... and pregnant! What do I do?
Q. I'm 14 years old and ya I now I'm young but I lost my virginity and I'm pregnant!!I don't know watt to do. I just found out this weekend and I'm to afraid to tell my parents ''PLEAZ I NEED ADVICE. I'M SO AFRAID!!''...
A. 21 November 2006: Hello,
what you can do is to seek help from teen pregnancy hotlines, or counseling. dont be afraid to tell your parents. tell them as early as possible, so as not to make things worse than now.
wish you luck.... (read in full...)
Should I surprise my ex with concert tickets?
Q. Would it be too much to surprise my ex with concert tickets for Christmas? We broke up a while back and she was dating someone else for a while. They broke up, but I have reason to believe that she still has a lot of feelings for him. However, I ...
A. 21 November 2006: Hey there Mike,
well taking her there as an outing is alright.she'll see it as some regular thing..nothing really that special.. well what i can say is that you can take her out..but not to "get her back", you know what i mean? so..just take her ... (read in full...)
I think I love my best friend, how can I tell her??
Q. i have this very close friend. she trusts me with everything, and comes to me whenever she's upset. we are really good friends. i'm beginning to like her. in fact i'm always thinkin about her. she was upset a few days ago and she text me to go to ...
A. 19 November 2006: Hello,
you might have a crisis there if you suddenly pop the question in the middle of a problem between her and her current boyfriend.. id say you wait and see what happens. i know you like her alot.. but taking this for your advantage makes you ... (read in full...)
I want out of this relationship but he refuses to believe me! What should I do?
Q. i am in a relationship for six years - on and off. Now I want out but i don't know how. i have tried telling, hinting ...the works. he refuses to believe that i want out...what do i do...
A. 19 November 2006: Hello,
i do believe Kepersa has answered your question :)... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gave me a blowjob and am worrying about STDS!
Q. Hey everyone. i need to rest my conscience(sp), so help? Okay, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while, and both she and i feel super comfortable with each other and i love her so much. But, on one of the recent days we were together, w...
A. 19 November 2006: Hello,
well from what i can remember from my exual education classes.. blowjobs dosent give you stds.. not unless your dna/sperm has direct contact with anothers.. usually in the genital areas.. id say you're safe. if you're still worried, go chec... (read in full...)
Now that she's back with her bf..I find I am sad and wanting to be with her myself. Why am I doing this?
Q. i have a extremely close friend. she has a 9month boyfriend. she broke up with him, she called me over, she was in a terrible state! she was cryin but i was there for her. i really wanted her to get back with him. next day she phoned me and told me ...
A. 18 November 2006: Hello,
what you feel now is NOT love.. its rather envy coz she was really close to you for only that time..
you have to know the relationship will not last long and that the girl herself will get hurt.. she will be thinking:"she gets back with her... (read in full...)
Her guy friend is telling her, he loves her and that I treat her like sh*t! What can I do about this?
Q. I have a girlfriend who has a best friend who i think are too close and now he is telling her that he loves her and that i treat her like s**t im really annoyed about it what should i do ?...
A. 18 November 2006: Hello,
okay from a male's perspective, the other dude is soo desperate isnt he...ive got a friend whose got this problem as well.. flirts with his girlfriend so much and tells bad things about my friend.. so what my friend did was just thre... (read in full...)
He wants to marry me...but I think he feels his family is more important and I feel ignored.
Q. MY bf left the country we have a wonderful relationship but he hasnt called me till now, i got a mail which was adrressed to many of his frnds includin me.he said he cant call me and will call soon.iam sure he called up his parents and told them he ...
A. 18 November 2006: Hello,
maybe you should give him a chance to explain himself..
he might be really busy ya know? dont worry about this..... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex-wife is still calling him up all the time and it's upsetting me!
Q. Hello, I would like some advice about ways to deal with my boyfriends ex-wife. She filed for divorce and has regretted it ever since. They have been divorced for two years now. They have two boys together (8 and 5). My boyfriend and I have bee...
A. 16 November 2006: no, you view it as naturally a human would view it.. erm..could you tell us what do you intend to do? your first plans of action?
it would help i think...thank you... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my partners brother!
Q. ok here goes!!! My partner and I are very happy but recently have been getting feeling for my partner's brother :( We flirt all the time and have such laughs. He has also admitted his feelings and this is just an awful space to be in. What can I ...
A. 16 November 2006: Hello,
i just noticed ive read the last two posts wrongly and im answering the wrong things..
alright, what i know from relationships that start from flirting dont usually last long...
what i suggest... is just dont do anything.. let every... (read in full...)
I dont know him but I have feelings for him, how do I get over him?
Q. Hi, I think I just needed a bit of a rant and I didn't know who to talk to about this. I met a great guy 1.5 years ago. It was on vacation and my aunt introduced us (he's close with her family)...we hit it off and hung out all night and had a ...
A. 16 November 2006: Hello again,
sorry, i read your post wrongly..
well dosent your answer answer your own question then? or are oyu asking whether its a good idea or not?
... (read in full...)
I dont know him but I have feelings for him, how do I get over him?
Q. Hi, I think I just needed a bit of a rant and I didn't know who to talk to about this. I met a great guy 1.5 years ago. It was on vacation and my aunt introduced us (he's close with her family)...we hit it off and hung out all night and had a ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello,
dont worry about age.. my aunt is wayy old.. shes 40+ and my uncle is in his 30s.. hah. now THATS old.
okay okay, now thats just mean to totally ignore him, just for another man. he CAN be a friend but nothing more, or less. imagine how ... (read in full...)
what do girls look for in guys?
Q. i really like this girl. i'm 16, she's 14. we only met once before. we had a nice chat. now were meeting again with mates for evening out. what do girls look for in guys? any tips? i want to leave with her number. what qualities do girls look for? ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello,
as the list goes.. yea, you cant be all of them.. if you're not that good at socialising, you can be other things.. a gentleman for example? yup. also what Lisag said, dont be too nice.. it will freak out a girl.. ive done it once... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my partners brother!
Q. ok here goes!!! My partner and I are very happy but recently have been getting feeling for my partner's brother :( We flirt all the time and have such laughs. He has also admitted his feelings and this is just an awful space to be in. What can I ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello,
maybe you could test your partner..you can say that you might** have a boyfriend and then see his reaction to it.. its its a green light id say go for it.
however, if he acts all strange and stuff you know he does like you.
but you can... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him, should I go out with him?
Q. Hi i recently lost my virginity to a good male friend of a 18 mnths we are really close and last week he disappeared and i was so worried, when he turned up we spent the eve together and snuggling in to watch the tv developed further. The problem is ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello,
it dosent mean that when you lose your virginity you HAVE to go out with him you know.. like Lisag said, youve got a long life ahead... well.. the phrase "grinding me down"..
that is my highlighted point.. he might though.. theres always a... (read in full...)
If I spend the night we might have sex again and I want to wait. Now he feels hurt!
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend, but we slept together last week and now I still want to be with him I just think that waiting until marriage to have sex is a safer and better idea for me right now. He said he was fine with that, but got hurt when I ...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello,
well what i know about us guys is that we're too attracted to sex and cant wait for it, just that we dont show it to make us appear nice and sincere... well you did say you wanted to spend the night.. he was looking forward to it all the time... (read in full...)
Should I ask the girl he texted what happened between them? I feel like I wasn't told the whole story.
Q. hi, i posted a question on 8th march 06, the title was There is agirl calling and txting my boyfriend, he says they are just friends, is this true? i got 2 replies, i know it was a while back but im having the same feelings about the situation, what ...
A. 15 November 2006: If you really trust him, believe that there was nothing going on between him and that other girl. remember, curiousity kills the cat.
... (read in full...)
Sex with him is painful and has caused me to bleed! Any advice?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend now for just over a month, but we're having terrible trouble having sex. My boyfriend is not my first sexual partner, but everytime we attempt to have sex the pain is unbelievable. I've slept with men more we...
A. 15 November 2006: As what thena said, see a doctor.
the first thing i imagined was that your boyfriends penis was too big to fit... pain over pleasure you may ask? id say pleasure is much better.
so..see a doctor and see whats the cause of it yea.
hope ive been... (read in full...)
I'm not physically attracted to my wife like I used to be!!!
Q. I am not physically attracted to my wife like I used to be. Is there hope for restoring physical attractiveness? My wife and I have been married almost 5 years. We are both around 40. We have only had intercourse eleven times this year. I am...
A. 15 November 2006: Hello Spencer,
a strange problem you have there.. well what i can suggest if you DO want to have great sex with your wife again.. well this may be one sucky tip but.. stop with the fantasizing. it helps bring you back to reality and makes you real... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex-wife is still calling him up all the time and it's upsetting me!
Q. Hello, I would like some advice about ways to deal with my boyfriends ex-wife. She filed for divorce and has regretted it ever since. They have been divorced for two years now. They have two boys together (8 and 5). My boyfriend and I have bee...
A. 14 November 2006: lol. boob job+lipo=FAKE.
okok cutting the crap...
does his ex-wife have another BF already? two years isnt enough for her it seems.. maybe she's desperate for love.
well, one thing you can do is to just endure her.. at least she dosent do nasty ... (read in full...)
Standing by your man... Love or stupidity?
Q. How do you know when standing by your man is love or stupidity?...
A. 14 November 2006: hmm..time is of the essence..
maybe try and talk him out of it.. i think he's the hasty kind of person is he? tell him he needs to take things slowly..doing things fast makes more mistakes coz your gonna be careless. hope ive been of some help.... (read in full...)
I like this guy at work! Should I ask him out via e-mail?
Q. Hello everyone!, I really like/fancy this guy at work, and I'm not sure if he feels the same way... We sometimes chat when we see each other on breaks etc and on e-mail, and get on really well. I have just found out he is single, what should I do ...
A. 14 November 2006: well it depends.. are you the girl/woman(sorry i dont know your age) that makes the first move, or do you wait?
if you make the first move, ask for a contact and ask him for an outing or such.. a small one to get to know each other better. ... (read in full...)
Will I lose him if I'm honest about my wild past.
Q. i have a loving bf everything is fine we are planning to get married soon but the problem is i had a wild past and i havent told him abt it,he knows it but not everything, should i be entirely honest wth him?i do regret i was like this be4 i cant ...
A. 14 November 2006: a relationship should be truthful. you dont need to worry if he truly loves you for who you are and what you were.. if you think he can do that, tell him the truth, straight up. however, tell him the whole thing, dont leave the small things out.. ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for someone else and can't bring myself to end it with my current bf!
Q. I dont know what to do. I'm in a bit of a rut with my current boyfriend. I've been with him since I was only 15 and I'm now 19. I feel like I've out grown the relationship and hes done some things in the past that i cant get over. The problem is ...
A. 14 November 2006: as what the two peopl above have mentioned, yes. take the time to think it over.. having a boyfriend for over 4-5 years is a pretty strong relationship.. breaking it wouldbe really devastate your boyfriend..
think it over..slowwwllyy....... (read in full...)
What defines an adult relationship from a teenagers relationship?
Q. I broke up with my 18 year old bf 2 months ago and since then I've been trying to work out why it fell apart even though we loved eachother to death, and I've finally cracked it. It got too BIG. Everything was heavy and important and serious, and ...
A. 14 November 2006: Hello,
hmm.. this is my view coming from a 15 year old.. YES 15 year old. heh. alright, since im a teenager, maybe i can be of some help?
righty, normally teenage relationships are very..er..childish? quarelling over stuff, normally the female b... (read in full...)
My long distance lover type guy won't let me come to his city!
Q. my not really a boyfriend more of a lover type guy is very sweet and attentive. it's a long distance relationship. he comes to see me on average every 5 weeks from late friday night to early sunday morning. we always have a great time (i know i do, ...
A. 14 November 2006: hmm.. i might know the cause.. when you said "mission" was it your idea, or was it his?
if it was his, then he would be just using you, but you still trust him.
if it was yours, and he accepted, it means you trust him and are certain that he ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my depress boyfriend... ? He's bringing me down too!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now, sometimes it feels like we get real close, and then other times he distants himself from me. We talked the other night and he told me he was depressed and didn't know why. This depression of ...
A. 14 November 2006: Hello whygirl, i've seen this problem with a friend of mine, nearly exact.. i hope i can help.
well, maybe your boyfriend is experiencing some kind of problem on his own, and feels better if everyone was left out of it. or maybe, this problem ... (read in full...)
Standing by your man... Love or stupidity?
Q. How do you know when standing by your man is love or stupidity?...
A. 14 November 2006: hmm. thenabear, do you mean he has done something but you dont know whether to be on his side or not? i dont understand you, sorry.... (read in full...)
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