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| | *he Shadow's Tears's profile:Hi, my names Shadow Tears,
i love to help people with there problems, and i have a fetish with figuring out answers for peoples problems.
but, i do have anger problems, and tend to change moods quickly. i still try to stay in a hyper happy mood.
I've helped my friends and family with there problems for years and they seem to keep wanting my advise and i hope to be a counselor one day.
i love drawling, writing, and dancing. i also sing but i wouldn't call it the best. (lol)
well i hope all my advise will help you guys, but if it doesn't i understand if you stop going to me. and i'm really sorry.
by the way, i'm understanding enough to not get mad if someone doesn't agree with my advise, but i tend to get very angry, (it's apart of my anger problem) if you are down right rude and hateful to me, for either my questions or answers. and i'm not really sure what i might do. but i hope that doesn't ever happen, because i really don't want any form of an enemy.
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Help! In love with my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do. I like my boyfriend's best friend! but i still have feelings for my boyfriend. I feel horrible. Help! :( ..please :(!!...
A. 26 November 2009: Hello,
OK, i would say, in my mind, you can look at what you have. you should have told us more information, it would have helped a lot. but, maybe, you should think about what you have. how does your boyfriend treat you? is he nice? mean? rude... (read in full...)
I'm there for her, I cheer her up, but I am confused, don't really know if she likes me or not, what's your thought?
Q. Theres this girl that I like alot, and cant get her out of my mind and cant stop thinking about. I told her I liked her and that i couldnt stop thinking about her.. she said i was the sweetest guy she knew.. i asked her how she felt about me and she ...
A. 10 June 2009: i'm really sorry to hear this. i was in this situation. but from the girls POV. i sometimes liked this guy then other times i didnt, in that way. I felt like i was toying with his heart. and that's wrong. but sometimes women doesn't realize what ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend I care about, but a friend I prefer
Q. hello, i'm Shadow Tears, i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i ...
A. 10 June 2009: i'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend, i dont need a boyfriend when i'm this way... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend I care about, but a friend I prefer
Q. hello, i'm Shadow Tears, i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i ...
A. 6 June 2009: the problem is i fallow my gut feelings, but this time, there no gut feeling. its just a problem. i think i might be pushing my boyfriend away, but i don't want to do that. hes an awesome guy. but i'm also scared that he might be feeling things for ... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 6 June 2009: she still needs to tell him, this couls ger worce ... (read in full...)
I was going to marry her but caught her in our bed with another man
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for five and a half years; since Christmas 2004. I was planning on proposing to her and then joining her in a civil union, but I caught her having sex with a man. In our bed. I honestly don't even know what to ...
A. 6 June 2009: hello,
oh sweetie i'm so sorry. you shouldn't have to go threw this. maybe you can talk to her, ask her why she did it. get her side of the story.
but i do know this. that's really disrectful and a crime to the heart. maybe you need some time t... (read in full...)
What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity?
Q. What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity? Ive heard that most people really regret it. all my friends lost theres on a one-night stand and they all agree that they would love to go back in time,...
A. 6 June 2009: i'm glad! your a very smart girl. i'm very glad your using your knowledge and that your respect your body. shine baby shine! lol
have an awesome life!
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How can I improve my self-esteem so I can enjoy my relationship to the fullest?
Q. A few years ago, I was involved in an unhealthy relationship. He cheatd on me, though I took him back only to have it happen again. I tried so hard but he just let me down, while trying to keep me running after him. I got out of there and got stro...
A. 5 June 2009: Hello,
when you ask those questions, its not because you feel you should be cheated on. (though it may have something to do with the subconscious reasoning for it) i feel that you was reinsurance that he wont leave you, or wont want better. ... (read in full...)
How can I let her know I don't want to be her friend anymore?
Q. my so called mate, has turned into suck a moody cow, ever since i got my first boyfriend, she tried to ruin it, now im finally with someone i love and care about she is still trying to again, and keeps acussing me of having mood swings, and bitching ...
A. 5 June 2009: Hello, i agree that if you don't want to be her mate then just stop acting like her mate. but if she asks you in person why are you ignoring her. tell her the truth. "i can't take your b******* anymore" and leave it at that. if you say to much ... (read in full...)
Doesn't his plan make me look like his bitch???
Q. Okay well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we got onto the subject of sex. We are both virgins and I'm his first girlfriend. so anyways its hard to really explain everything but um well he couldn't understand my reasons for waiting and ...
A. 5 June 2009: hello, that is stupid. unless i am mistaken, a relationship is two people, that love and show there love to each other alone. i think hes scared to be in a real relationship, hes scared of being "tied down" to one girl. but i wouldn'... (read in full...)
My friend's BF's cousin is forcing her to screw her man and check him!
Q. Well Basically.. My best friend who is 14 years old has been checking this guy for about 2 months now, she didn't really want to go out with him but now its ok. But then we were on the bus to town and her bfs cousin come on he kept tryna flirt with ...
A. 5 June 2009: OK i didnt really understand that, but she needs to tell her boyfriend whats going on, because if the cousin keeps up he may try to rape her or hurt her more. plus that's sexual assault and he can get arrested for it. i'm scared the cousin might get ... (read in full...)
Straight guy with confused gay feelings and experience
Q. I am a normal straight guy with good job, beautiful wife, and kids. 40. Lately, I have been finding myself fantasizing about stuff that I wouldn't have even thought about untill now. Sex life with wife is great. But I guess I want more spice in ...
A. 5 June 2009: Hello! well, it could be that your having curious thoughts, ye-know "just want to know what its like" i don't think that you should worry to much at this point. because it doesn't sound to me like your to confused. i, think it may be an attention ... (read in full...)
Should I say anything to my neighbour about the photos I found of his wife?
Q. I recently purchased a camera from my neighbours in our street, whilst playing with the camera i came across some photos which had been left on the camera, most were of normal family stuff but to my delight and surprise there were around a dozen ...
A. 4 June 2009: Hi, what i was saying is what if there marriage is based off a false love? if you was the husband and you found out that someone knew your wife was cheating on you, wouldn't you be mad at them for not telling you? and this whole "the husba... (read in full...)
I think I want to lose my V-card to him
Q. im 15 yrs old and thers his boy that i have known for like almost a yr now and he just turnt 16 and i really really like him and i know he likes me to because he has told me many times. he knows that i am a virgin and he has told me that he isnt ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hello,
NO! please oh please no. look sweetie your 15! way to young! and only known him for a year! no! if all he's asking is sex, then that's all he wants OK? you cant give you purity to some guy you've known for a year, and not think about al... (read in full...)
I was so upset over him that I cut myself
Q. i'm 16 and in high school. ok so i like this guy. he's amazing and i think i'm in love with him. i just can't stop thinking about him. we're friends and we always talk on the bus cause he's not in any of my classes. i think he might know i like him, ...
A. 3 June 2009: Hello,
well for one your still young. its hard to know for sure your "in love" with someone if you only talk to him on the bus, and what he said was insensitive,
i don't agree with cutting yourself, so my advise on that is: try to find bett... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual but should I try being in a relationship with a man?
Q. im a bisexual who prefers girls.. i've never fell in love with men (i only "like" them and their bodies) but have loved many women. im in closet..have never been into relationship.. there's this guy who has been chasing me for the past year...he's ...
A. 3 June 2009: hello,
why cant you tell him your bi? is there a trust issues there? maybe you should take it real! slow. get to know him more. maybe ask him questions about his view points on bi and gay. (like a curious question, you don't have to tell him you ... (read in full...)
Why aren't I good enough for him any more?
Q. My boyfriend flirts with other girls... but not just any girls. My best friends... while I'm there! We've been going out a while, few months and we're both the same age really. I'm almost 14, he is. He is also kind of pressuring me into sexual ...
A. 1 June 2009: Hello,
get rid of him! it seems that all he's after is sex! sweeite you can get better and he's not treating you right. show him that he can't pressure you around. your to young to be going threw this type of pressure so get rid of the couse! ... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual but should I try being in a relationship with a man?
Q. im a bisexual who prefers girls.. i've never fell in love with men (i only "like" them and their bodies) but have loved many women. im in closet..have never been into relationship.. there's this guy who has been chasing me for the past year...he's ...
A. 1 June 2009: Hello,
well since your "in the closet" you don't really have to tell him your bi, but if your thinking of being with him do what i do. when i date a guy that's really serious about me, i tell them, to take it slow. i'm open to the fact that i'm... (read in full...)
Should I say anything to my neighbour about the photos I found of his wife?
Q. I recently purchased a camera from my neighbours in our street, whilst playing with the camera i came across some photos which had been left on the camera, most were of normal family stuff but to my delight and surprise there were around a dozen ...
A. 1 June 2009: Hi, i say bring it to her attention, show her the pics and get her side of the story, but be polite about it, after all its not your fault that you found the pics right? he needs to know about it, but i feel that his wife should be the one whom ... (read in full...)
I can't stop staring at other girl's bodies!
Q. This is really embarrassing. Ok here goes. I think I might be a Bisexual. I mean I really like guys and that'll never change (in fact I'm kind of in love with this guy, and I think he likes me too) But here's the thing. I get turned on by girls....
A. 1 June 2009: Hi!, sweetie i know what this is, your bi-curious, well that and your coming to the age where your realizing the bodies growth patterns. Bi-curious is something almost every girl goes threw, its connected to trying to find out who you are and its ... (read in full...)
I can't get over him
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend five months ago and the break up hurt me. I tried everything to get back together with him, but he's simply not interested, I love him so much and he was the best thing in my life. Each and every day I miss him and I wo...
A. 1 June 2009: Hello,
well Hun, stop right there! tell me, why! did you break up with him if you loved him this much? it doesn't make since. but, if you have tried to get with him, and he keeps refusing, maybe it might be time to move on.
i say write hi... (read in full...)
What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity?
Q. What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity? Ive heard that most people really regret it. all my friends lost theres on a one-night stand and they all agree that they would love to go back in time,...
A. 1 June 2009: hello,
sweetie don't think of it as your left out, think of it as your playing your cards right. would you want to slip into the peer pressures of having sex and then regret it, or wait until you find Mr. Spark, (hopefully that wont be his real... (read in full...)
9 years and the thrill is gone
Q. I've lived with my girlfriend for 9 years now but im not happy. At first it was great we couldent wate to be together. We lerned new stuf together every day. Now I feal all the bonds and Excitment have gone. I feal as thogh im a taxi service, ...
A. 1 June 2009: Hello,
well maybe before you leave her, talk to her, tell her in a calm, caring matter how you're feeling, and try to talk out a solution with her. if its been 9 years, then do you really think that you should just give up? i'm truly sorry that... (read in full...)
I'm a 16 year old guy, I'm tubby, not fat just tubby. I also lack confidence.
Q. I'm a 16 year old guy, i'm tubby, not fat just tubby. I feel self-concious whenever i see girls around. I keep thinking that they are freaked out by me or something, i'm not exactly the confident type. My philosphy is " i'm fat and i'm ugly to ...
A. 1 June 2009: Sweetie, that's a beautiful was to describe her. it really seems as if you like her a lot. but what i can say, from being a female, is you seem like a wonderful person, and i'm sure she'll see that if you just show her you want to get to know her. ... (read in full...)
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