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writes:Theres this girl that I like alot, and cant get her out of my mind and cant stop thinking about. I told her I liked her and that i couldnt stop thinking about her.. she said i was the sweetest guy she knew.. i asked her how she felt about me and she said at times i like you more then a friend and at times i dont.. when shes down im always there to cheer her up and viceversa, it kinda feels like she likes me but i dont know.. im confused and dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, The Shadow's Tears +, writes (10 June 2009):
 i'm really sorry to hear this. i was in this situation. but from the girls POV. i sometimes liked this guy then other times i didnt, in that way. I felt like i was toying with his heart. and that's wrong. but sometimes women doesn't realize what there doing. our emotions are so jacked up that we send out mixed signals. i would say. ask her if shes willing to give it a shot. if she says no. then just be there for her like you are. if you pressure her she'll push you away.
i hope this helps, you can pm me if you wanna talk about this more privately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): It sounds like she isn't sure what she wants.... try being a little less available so she realizes what it feels like to not have you there when she wants it. It will make her realise how she really feels - for better or worse. (Most likely better)
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