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Im an all American girl with a passion for languages and people. I desire to see people do right and to live right instead of in constant drama or emotional hurts from people who should be loving to them. I am open, honest and will not bite my tongue when giving you advice. "Better to hear truth than candy coated lies".

I was a military brat and have been to 11 countries. I speak a couple of languages and my number one thrill is international travel. I plan to go to Antarctica, Iceland, South Africa, Japan and to India in the next 5 years.

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I'm worried about the prejudice over the fact I'm having a baby so young

Q.   well im gemma,recently i posted a request for some advise on this and the people have really helped me loads!!you know who you are so thanks a million!but i have another thing i have been thinking about today,because i think i am pregnant,my ...

A.   9 July 2007: Why are you worried about what others will think? They arent living your life. They are not paying your bills and looking after your health. Their opinions mean nothing. You live for you. *I would like to say though that you should push to g... (read in full...)

She's has been having a relationship with her bf's father! How do I tell her daughter?

Q.   Just found out that my daughter is having a relationship with her partners father. How the hell are we going to explain to her two year old daughter that mummies new boyfriend is her Grandad. Just can't get my head around this, has anyone else had ...

A.   9 July 2007: Wow, I do not agree with the replies given to this question. You brought your daughter up better than this, yes? It seems incestous to be with a man AND his father even if there is no marriage or vows made or the previous relationship has ended. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend (26) has moved in... and he's so messy it's like living with a child!

Q.   Hello all! I wanted advice on what I'm hoping is a fairly common phenomena: My boyfriend of almost a year moved in with me 3 weeks ago.We have been at university together and known each other/seen/dated for 5 years off/on. I am getting in...

A.   8 July 2007: He's living as if he is the only one in the home. You tell him ASAP that this is how the apartment is going to be. There is no sense in living in mess. Give him a spot that he can keep trashed all he wants other than that the entire apartment will ... (read in full...)

I think my husband may be attracted to his co-worker at his new job of 6 weeks.

Q.   I think my husband may be attracted to his co-worker at his new job of 6 weeks. We've been married for 11 months but have been together as a couple for 10 years. I am now 7 months pregnant. They are one the phone everyday even after office hours. ...

A.   8 July 2007: 1) It isnt silly to be jealous or curious as to why he is talking to this woman. You have that right as a wife to know what is going on with your husband. 2) Work is work and home is home. By him talking to her about work during his off time is ... (read in full...)

How can I discover how he feels about me, subtly?

Q.   i fallen in secret love with someone whom i like a lot. i dont know whether he likes me or not. i cant even ask him, neither i can kiss him nor i can give him a card or a flower because whenever we meet, we meet in school. please help me out to know ...

A.   8 July 2007: Finding out his feelings subtly will bring in a lot of assumptions that can be wrong. You need to ask him flat out if he has feelings for you or not. This is the sure way to know the truth. You also have to be prepared for the answer either way. ... (read in full...)

He treats me like crap. What should I do?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been togeather for 6 years. i luv him alot. But i wonder if he really luvs me.He never takes me anywhere or buys me anything. If I ask him for anthing including sex. Its always NO! Whats the big deal, Id do anything for him. ...

A.   8 July 2007: Leave him. Don't worry about the 6 years spent. When you get with a very good man one year will be worth much more than the 6. With this current guy none of your needs are being met, but I am sure he is getting his needs met physically, mentally and ... (read in full...)

He is abusive and possessive, but he says I overreact--please help!

Q.   I'm sorry this is so long but really feel the need to spill all. I have been living with my partner for 8 months. About one month after I moved in he started to become very jealous and possessive. He wanted me to stop seeing my single friends...

A.   8 July 2007: No no no no! Honey, leave now. You are being physically and verbally abused!!! No man should use his girlfriend as a punching bag or control what she wears or who she talks to. Do not be scared of him. LEAVE. You and him have no bond. No engagem... (read in full...)

Recently diagnosed with Bipolar II disorder, now my wife is saying she doesn't have feeling for me anymore

Q.   Recently diagnosed with Bipolar II disorder, now my wife is saying she doesn't have feeling for me anymore. Lets start at the beginning first of all. I've been with my wife for just over 4 years now and married for the past 9mos. When I met her, ...

A.   8 July 2007: Wow, I am very sorry to hear how she is treating you. First off, remind her of the vows she took when she married you. Those should have included something along the lines "in sickness and health". No one fore saw that this would arise and when you ... (read in full...)

He does not want his future ex-wife to find out that we're dating until the divorce is settled, but it's been going on for months!! Should I date other people?

Q.   Dear Cupid I have been seeing a man for over 12 months. I am always the one asking when he would like to catch up, inviting him over etc and he tells me that he loves me, wants a family with me, wants to move in together later down the track et...

A.   8 July 2007: Honey, you are the other woman AND seeing another woman's husband. Does that have no effect on you? Do you know why they are getting a divorce? Do you think he will change completely for you after that final divorce paper is signed? Takes two to ... (read in full...)

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