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Is she playing games with me, am I being paranoid or am I just ignoring the fact that she doesn't like me?

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Question - (22 September 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I met agirl a while ago while working on a farm in another country. She's just turned 17 and I'm turning 22. I fell madly in love with her straight away and I felt she liked me back, before I spoke to her I'd catch her looking at me or giggling at my jokes. With any other girl it would be no problem but because I love her so much I can't muster the courage to ask her out. I have the constant feeling in my gut that she likes me and there's something between us. She's always nice to me and we often tease each other. I know she often mentions me and things Iv'e said to her friends and just before I left she asked me if I was going to take her on a farewell diner. But other times she's ignored me while I was at her house, always seems to be doing something if I ask if she's free even though she seems happy when she does see me and seems to ignore compliments I give her. I sent her a birthday present recentally and through others I know that she was happy when she got it but over a week later I still haven't even got a thankyou e-mail from her. Is she playing games with me, am I being paranoid or am I just ignoring the fact that she doesn't like me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2006):

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Thanks for the replies, I forgot to add that I'm returning in a few months, I only left because my tourist Visa ran out, I'm getting a 2 year work visa so it wouldn't be a long distance relationship.

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A male reader, Sweet111 United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2006):

The advice given is possibly true. There are however really nice teens aboutand not all of them are out to upset you. Yes,there is an age gap but age is just a number. As for most long distance relationships end in heartache... relationships between people who live in the same village can end up the same.

Sorry to say this but if you dont ask you dont get... and i sometimes wish i had the courage to ask as well... you're not alone!

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A female reader, SassySarah +, writes (22 September 2006):

She's 17 even if you get the relationship started how long will it last?

A long distance relationship often ends in heatache.

No disrespect to you but find someone who will give it to you straight not a teenager who dont kneed nor seems not to want anything seriouse

There is someone whos gonna love you as much as your gonna love them out there keep looking

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